XmisterIS
Purveyor of fine nonsense
I have just been (unsuccessfully) helping a friend to assemble some flat pack furniture because she wasn't sure that she would be able to do it herself. Normally, with just me involved, this would be a calm, swift and methodical exercise. So, when I arrived I put my logical head on and said, "let's get it all unpacked first". So, I methodically opened the packaging, got out all the bits, carefully sorted them and laid them out at right-angles to each other, collected all the fixings and counted them, etc, flattened out the instructions and laid them in a suitable spot on the floor so that they were visible all together. 5 minutes later, we were ready to start. "I'll just nip to the loo. Do you want a cup of tea?", I said.
Famous last words ...
When I returned 10 mins later, she had heaped up all the bits in a pile - fixings, instructions, the whole lot in a big heap. She was sitting in the middle of it with two completely unrelated components which she'd liberally covered in superglue and stuck together. I kid ye not. The superglue didn't even come with the furniture, it was her own (she thinks superglue can do anything).
Well, that was the end of that!
Back to the shop she goes tomorrow to get another one, seeing as she can't take the existing one back that she's now ruined. I have refused to help her with the next one unless she lets me do all of it!!
It's not her "fault" as such (well, it is, she buggered it all up!), but she has absolutely no spatial awareness whatsoever. She's not stupid, she just can't see things in 3D in her head.
She can't read a map for toffee either, which in the past has been mind-bendingly frustrating for me! We've had conversations in the car like:
"Are we getting near the road that we need yet?"
"Umm, perhaps ..."
"Perhaps?"
"Yes"
"Well, how far are we?"
"Ummm, I'm not sure".
"Is this the road coming up on the left?"
"Ummm, I dunno."
(I stop the car briefly to look at the map in her lap)
"Yes it is!"
"Is it? How do you know?"
"Well, look at the layout of that junction on the map - it's the same as the one infront of us. And that bend in the road."
"How do you know that?"
"Because I'm looking at it on the map ... look ... that there ... this here ... the same thing ..."
"Is it?"
"Oh my God!!"
etc ...
The problem is, for me it is inconceivable how anyone can not have spatial awareness. I can't imagine not being able to manipulate 3D objects in my head. I just "do" it. Funnily, it's words that I struggle with - I can't solve anagrams for toffee and I get lost in big words. My friend is the other way around! She writes effortlessly, quickly, with no mistakes and is amazingly good at Scrabble - she always beats me hands down!
'tis a funny thing, the mind ...
Famous last words ...
When I returned 10 mins later, she had heaped up all the bits in a pile - fixings, instructions, the whole lot in a big heap. She was sitting in the middle of it with two completely unrelated components which she'd liberally covered in superglue and stuck together. I kid ye not. The superglue didn't even come with the furniture, it was her own (she thinks superglue can do anything).
Well, that was the end of that!
Back to the shop she goes tomorrow to get another one, seeing as she can't take the existing one back that she's now ruined. I have refused to help her with the next one unless she lets me do all of it!!
It's not her "fault" as such (well, it is, she buggered it all up!), but she has absolutely no spatial awareness whatsoever. She's not stupid, she just can't see things in 3D in her head.
She can't read a map for toffee either, which in the past has been mind-bendingly frustrating for me! We've had conversations in the car like:
"Are we getting near the road that we need yet?"
"Umm, perhaps ..."
"Perhaps?"
"Yes"
"Well, how far are we?"
"Ummm, I'm not sure".
"Is this the road coming up on the left?"
"Ummm, I dunno."
(I stop the car briefly to look at the map in her lap)
"Yes it is!"
"Is it? How do you know?"
"Well, look at the layout of that junction on the map - it's the same as the one infront of us. And that bend in the road."
"How do you know that?"
"Because I'm looking at it on the map ... look ... that there ... this here ... the same thing ..."
"Is it?"
"Oh my God!!"
etc ...
The problem is, for me it is inconceivable how anyone can not have spatial awareness. I can't imagine not being able to manipulate 3D objects in my head. I just "do" it. Funnily, it's words that I struggle with - I can't solve anagrams for toffee and I get lost in big words. My friend is the other way around! She writes effortlessly, quickly, with no mistakes and is amazingly good at Scrabble - she always beats me hands down!
'tis a funny thing, the mind ...