I'm not telling anyone to do anything.You're telling them to consistently stick to their holy book (or some such crazy demand).
Why is this? You say that YOU don't live your life that way - why insist on it from others?
Like I said, a suspicion of bad faith is creeping in here, just a suspicion ...
I'm saying that if someone claims to live their life by the words in any of those books, if they deviate from that, they are drawing their justifications for that from outside of that book, from pretty much the same sources as those that don't follow the book.