i wont be going there again. . .

[Vincent Lu]

Just accidentally rode into a secret gay dogging spot in a secluded part of Lea Valley and there was only one way out (which was the way in) the grass was tall with thorny bushes and i saw 4 men in various patches sunbathing in their speedos and three other men popped their heads up from the tall grass with Meerkat-like-enthusiam. . Not familiar with this spot i tried to ride my way out of this area and frantically tried to pedal my way out of the thick undergrowth. . Eventually my legs drove me to a dead end and was confronted by a dead-end and panic struck. Perverse notions ran through my head and i started panicking 'maybe i might get raped' 'maybe these men think i want fun' sod that! I told myself and selected a Lil wayne album on my Mp3 player and put my mountain bike on low gear and scrambled out of this dodgy spot. Any obstacle that got in my way i will bunny-hop over. I must of been doing 25mph through thorn bushes and blackberry bushes and had to decend a 45o slope at speed. . . Got back out in the open again and onto the trial all hot and flustered only to be greeted by three heterosexual females and a heterosexual man. . . They must of thought i was some gaylord or saink. . . Cos i was dragging my bike up and was red faced and sweaty. . . I rode off. . . FAST!

 

[paulb55]

Just accidentally rode into a secret gay dogging spot in a secluded part of Lea Valley and there was only one way out (which was the way in) the grass was tall with thorny bushes and i saw 4 men in various patches sunbathing in their speedos and three other men popped their heads up from the tall grass with Meerkat-like-enthusiam. . Not familiar with this spot i tried to ride my way out of this area and frantically tried to pedal my way out of the thick undergrowth. . Eventually my legs drove me to a dead end and was confronted by a dead-end and panic struck. Perverse notions ran through my head and i started panicking 'maybe i might get raped' 'maybe these men think i want fun' sod that! I told myself and selected a Lil wayne album on my Mp3 player and put my mountain bike on low gear and scrambled out of this dodgy spot. Any obstacle that got in my way i will bunny-hop over. I must of been doing 25mph through thorn bushes and blackberry bushes and had to decend a 45o slope at speed. . . Got back out in the open again and onto the trial all hot and flustered only to be greeted by three heterosexual females and a heterosexual man. . . They must of thought i was some gaylord or saink. . . Cos i was dragging my bike up and was red faced and sweaty. . . I rode off. . . FAST!

Seriously dude that was funny LMFAO, but i suppose i wasn't for you

 

[coffeejo]

Yes, that's right, all gay men are rapists. Especially ones who sunbathe in speedos.

 

[alecstilleyedye]

Yes, that's right, all gay men are rapists. Especially ones who sunbathe in speedos.

in fairness, i think the op meant more that the assumption would be that he was there for the same thing as they were…

clumsy phraseology…

 

[Rohloff_Brompton_Rider]

Yes, that's right, all gay men are rapists. Especially ones who sunbathe in speedos.

+1. dangerous stereotyping. sad story of a man who thinks he is irresistible to gay men.

 

[slowmotion]

I've ridden across a gay cruising venue, Clapham Common, at the dead of night a few times in the company of a hundred or so fit men. So far, nobody has been molested....

Relax.

 

[slowmotion]

Faintly possible, but your claim has a ring of truth.

 

[slowmotion]

de nada

 

[GTTTM]

I think you'll probably find just like with heterosexual people that unless you actually indicate that you're there for the same reason as them they'll just give you a passing "piss off we're busy" glance and ignore you.

 

[Vincent Lu]

My shncere apolgies to those who i haue offended.
But i never witnessed a dogging site before and probably it was just my naïve mind thinking i may get attacked or flirted at due to the nature of the art of public sex and indecency.
If it was a hetrosexual site with more straight men than woman i probably would be just as panicky in fear of getting jumped by a bunch of perverts trespassing on their business.
. . . Cant seem to go anywhere in London these days to escape from crime and dodgy antics for a few hours.

Apoligies.
Vincent

 

[Muddy Ground]

Kind of know where you are coming from. Brockwell Park can be a bit problematic that way - one couple were actually at it right in the middle of one of the open spaces the other day at lunch time. And I mean at it, no doubt about what they were up to. Sometimes even an innocent amble abroad these days leads you to places you'd rather not be! You'd probably have been fairly safe - the Police do tend to monitor these places, and I wouldn't be surprised if some of the speedo wearers weren't, ahem, undercover officers.

MG

 

[wildjetskier]

Accidently My arse (scuse the pun) But as GTTTM posted unless you are their specifically then you should have nothing to worry about. I was out having a picnic in Windsor Great Park on Sunday and stumbled upon 2 gay men having a romp and a cuddle, as soon as they saw us they stopped and respected our being there. Don't you worry yourself

 

[yello]

Yes, that's right, all gay men are rapists.

Paedophiles too remember.

Not quite sure why the OP was "panic struck" though I can appreciate that they didn't want to be there. I remember walking into a public loo in Bethnal Green to discover it was a pick up place ('cottage' I believe is what they're called). I was struck by the obviousness and ordinariness of it all. I didn't feel threatened at all (awkward, yes, but not threatened) since it was clear that everything that was happening was purely consensual. I was in no danger at all. I've felt more threatened in loos before football games.

 

[Davidc]

Stereotyping is easy. Unnecessary though and nearly always wrong.

I've come across all sorts of groups like that, M-M, F-F, F-M when out riding and never had any real problems. I'm far more worried by groups of 'Chavvy Yoofs', many of whom are out looking to cause trouble.

 

[biggs682]

i think you are telling the truth

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