Have just replied to the awful loss experienced by Cm.Just this morning i saw my ex wife.We got divorced in 1987.I did not want it.I had to go back and live with my mother i was 38 years old.Lost my children,home everything.Hit the drinking very badly.Till one night so drunk vomited and fell in it.That was the turning point.Got my self back together.Met a girl at the local church and married in 1990.We now have two super girls.I retired early August 2006.Paid off the mortgage all loans and now am a house husband.Health 100% better.My ex is struggling with the after effects of cancer and its treatment today it showed.The feeling of love that rushed through me today was very strange.I wish her no ill feeling.But why did my life change so much for the better and hers change so badly the other way.Or so i see it .And it just shows how bad things eventually turn around.