I feel a chapati-recipe moment coming - ooh errr! Naans: - we usually have those as a stand-alone snack, served with butter and a bit of salad.
As regards disagreements about hotness (commonplace enough!), well, if you are making curry for several people, all with different scoville-preferences, then the answer is to make it fairly mild but spoon off some of the sauce half way through, and cook it separately with extra chillis and other spices (and maybe a dash of vinegar and tomato purée), then put it on the table as a condiment. That's what we often do. Suits everyone that way.