scarily close near miss on the way home tonight

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Sandra6

Veteran
Location
Cumbria
Approach the R A B, nothing coming from my right, cars approaching on the other side of the RAB from the left, first passes safely, I start to cross.
Next car completely fails to see me, or attempt to stop and is coming right at me. I pedalled like mad, and kind of slid the rear wheel so I brought the bike sideways so I was clear as she slammed on level with where my rear wheel had been!!
She starts to roll down the window and waves an apology. Absolutely shaking I shouted "you could've killed me!" And something along the lines of telling her she needs to look where she's going.
Then she jumps out of the car and starts yelling about my lights not working and she couldn't see me, so I turned the bike to show her the working lights. I could've also drawn attention to my bright pink jacket, and the ruck sack with hi-vis bands or my very visible white helmet, but I was still thinking "omg, she nearly hit me!" She's still raving about it being my fault and she's apologised so what's my problem. So I pointed out - quite calmly I thought - that she needs to be giving way to the right.
Her response?? " F off! You stupid old witch"
Well, t'is Halloween. But old?! pah!
I'm joking now, but I was really shaking. I called the police, but unfortunately I fudged the licence plate. Obviously didn't see it as well as I thought I had as she squealed away, so while the police have assured me they take these things seriously they can't go round and speak to her unless they "get lucky" and spot her on the road at some point. Highly unlikely as all I could remember was that it was a blue car. Halfords would be ashamed of me.
So, what's the response?? More lights?? Better hi-vis?? More caution at the RAB??
I'm actually quite nervous of cycling home tomorrow, it really was an "feck, that car is fecking close, what the feck do I do?" moment.
I'm glad I hadn't geared down for the hill (I was on the apollo with it's three functioning gears) because when I do I tend to spin and not go very far until I hit the hill, if I had been in the lower gear I wouldn't have managed a spurt to get out of the way and I'm fairly certain I'd have left a sizeable imprint in the bonnet.
 
more lights , more high vis , probably wont make much difference to be honest ,IF THEY AINT LOOKING, THEY AINT GONNA SEE YOU, no matter what you do .now calm yourself down and put the kettle on:thumbsup:
 
Location
Neath
Glad your ok, bit shaken up but not injured. try 2 rear lights on your bike I have one flashing and one constanlty on, makes me feel a bit safer if one fails.Dont give up cycling and she is the old witch not you .Bet them sweets were nice lol
 

Pat "5mph"

A kilogrammicaly challenged woman
Moderator
Location
Glasgow
Sorry to read about your scare, Sandra.
Eating lots of sweets is certainly the best way to calm yourself down after a fright ^_^
You don't need more visibility, that woman needs glasses!
 
Look at your sideways visibility, perhaps consider lights that have side spill if your current lights can only be seen from the back but like roadrash says, you can be lit up like a Christmas tree but its no good in those cases all you can do is position your self so you have get out room, touch wood that has worked for me so far.
 

deptfordmarmoset

Full time tea drinker
Location
Armonmy Way
It's the accept no blame gene that makes bad drivers make irrational and dishonest excuses with a sort of counter-attacking abusiveness. I once had a woman who almost took me out who started mouthing off at me. ''Have I said anything?'' was my first statement that I managed to slip into her tirade. ''No, but it was the look you gave me!"

Lord all mucking fighty, as the not-so-reverend Spooner might have said.
 
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PBB

Veteran
Location
Cardiff
roadrash is right, if they aren't looking, it makes no difference.

The problem seems to be the "quick glancers" - they will look for cars/anything big, but ignore (consciously or unconsciously I don't know) cyclists, as they don't regard cyclists as any particular threat to their general health. Happening a lot to me at the moment, I am well lit and Hi-Vis like the OP

Then a few minutes later a good driver will come along, slow down/wait/give you ample room etc, restores my faith in drivers.
 
Some people are just blind.

I was riding yesterday with 3 front lights, 2 flashing and 1 constant, fluorescent yellow jacket, leggings and overshoes with reflective bits on them, and still had some one right hook me. I could see it coming so covered the brakes, she looked straight at me but still turned. Only half way through the turn did she see me and stopped right in front of me forcing me to do an emergency stop grr! If you're going to be inattentive at least be assertive about it!
 

siadwell

Guru
Location
Surrey
For sideways-on visibility, consider the 3M/Sekuclip spoke reflectors available from various places such as Amazon, Play.com, Halfords and (periodically and cheaply) Lidl.
 
side visibilty - you can control that, you can't control if she was looking.
I used to have a problem with 1 roundabout off the A3 where cars simply did not see me because of the angle the road I came in on, was at. I had so many near misses there that I was getting quite scared of the junction. In the end I tried out some 3M spoke reflectors which wrap around your spokes and they are stunningly visible. we only have them on every other spoke (front wheel is one side of the bike, rear wheel the other), and as soon as I put these on my spokes the issues with the junction ceased. They are a completely passive form of lighting, don't affect the spokes and need very little maintenance, just the occasional clean with washing up liquid every couple of months. Do a google images search on 3m spoke reflectors and you will see what I mean.

Edit: beaten to it whilst I was writing the reply...
 
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