I'm sorry the OP got blitzed as much as that. It does sound like very bad luck. Most of us are quite accustomed to having maybe 5-10% of approaching drivers forgetting their dipswitch until too late.
Over 50% just sounds rotten.
I thought Crankarm's supposition that you might appear to other road users to be on 'high beam' yourself was interesting, but I've very rarely seen a cyclist who sets his or her lights up like that... It just doesn't make sense. To blitz an oncoming driver you'd need to have your lights set shining horizontally or slightly skyward, which does a rider no good.
I think there is a slight unwillingness among some drivers to use their lights responsibly, but they are a minority. Why it is, I do not know. I'm pretty sure it's not the 'it's just a bike and he can't flash back' thing suggested elsewhere on this thread. I drive a lot in the dark and it's not just bicycles who get blitzed.
In fact, I find it less of an inconvenience when cycling, which mat be a function of my being seated higher up.
In days of yore (when I learned to drive) the dipswitch was often a button on the floor, next to the clutch pedal. The business of dipping the lights was somehow 'apart' from all other functions. Also, most cars gave the driver very little information through the binnacle. The hi-beam light therefore might have stood out a little more. Now, even on a cheapo econobox I have illuminated dials for temperature, fuel, oil pressure, oil temp, water pressure, revs and even current speed. Lots of other gubbins is lit up too... window switches, heater controls.... a hi-beam light just starts to merge into the background.
Wow.... that's about all the mitigation I can dream up. Today's drivers are not what they were.