Although I use a Spoon, our shed is full of saddles that haven't worked for me or my wife, or friends etc. etc. etc.
a saddle is very personal and everyone's body is different.
I got the spoon as a cast off, from someone who said it had crippled them and ruined their sex life forever!
Yet for me, it's really comfy.
Sorry, no advice, just a few words of knowledge!
Jeff