MattHB
Proud Daddy
- Location
- Deepest darkest Dorset
My decree absolute came in the post yesterday
so free at last!
Worst thing tho, is that's my 2nd. Scary.

Worst thing tho, is that's my 2nd. Scary.
My decree absolute came in the post yesterdayso free at last!
Worst thing tho, is that's my 2nd. Scary.![]()
Who is your proposal aimed at, MattHB, Sarah H, Crankarm or Funnymummy?would you get married again ?
Who is your proposal aimed at, MattHB, Sarah H, Crankarm or Funnymummy?
No point aiming a proposal at me! Though I am happy and settled with a wonderful man, we are both previously divorced and know that marriage adds absolutely nothing to a relationship.
Apart from a degree of financial security should one partner die without writing a will.
Who is your proposal aimed at, MattHB, Sarah H, Crankarm or Funnymummy?
I am pleased for you.But i went through a Divorce back in 1987,and it still hurts.I didn't think a person could put someone through such pain.
I would not wish it on my worst enemy,but i wish you all the best for the future.
would you get married again ?
I said I'd never do it again. But the only reason I'm divorced twice is because (twice) I rushed into things and did it more out of a fear of being lonely. Sopy sod I am. I'm a very different person now with much more confidence. I relish my time alone so a lot really has changed.
However.. I'm now with a girl that's been my best friend for 5 years, we even work side by side in perfect harmony. I know for a fact that we'll be together now 'till death do us part', so I started thinking, why not. We won't do it for a few years (if we do), but we've talked about it and both feel very comfy.
The reason I've had self repeating patterns is purely my refusal to learn my lessons.. I think I've grown up a lot in the last year.![]()