I have just returned home with my Father so that i can monitor and care for him at home whilst trying to sort out a permanent solution .
I thank everyone for their very kind words and well wishes and advice. I shall read the thread again very carefully tomorrow.
Last week my father had his car stolen and the thief then broke into his home 3 days later and stole my Father's treasured possesions including his late Wife's wedding ring .
The shock of this episode had brought on severely increased dementia and memory loss
I would just like to say that I am deeply saddened by the ignorant and selfish hard nosed comments that some people have made.
I hope that they never have to go through the trauma that my 87 year old Father and I have had to go through this week as we both watched his memory and and mental cababilities dwindle this week and as he said goodbye to his home of 45 years tonight for the last time.
Let me make one thing perfectly clear for the those of you that unfortunately do not appear to be blessed with either intelligence or understanding.
My Father and I have no intention of requesting state care or assistence . We are only interested in preserving his estate to pay for his new home and ongoing private health care.
Should he need to go into full time nursing care eventually then I need to be sure that he will receive the best care he can afford.
I have never mentioned the word inheritence and it is the very last thing on my mind.
To suggest that I am only interested in my Fathers money is grossly offensive to me .
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ASC1951 said:
Let me make sure I've got this right:-
- your father has an asset which will cover some or all of the cost of his care and will only be taken when he no longer needs it.
- you want to make all us other taxpayers cover that cost so that you and your sister can have it instead.
- solicitors are money grabbing wottsits because they won't tell you for free how to do it.
If this wasn't C+, I would say you were a greedy unprincipled toe-rag.