https://singletrackworld.com/forum/bike-forum/grx-10sp-pull-ratio/
Hmmmmm this thread suggests it is a right mess, seems to me like you need grx shifters, front mech and rear mech for pristine shifting, appears 10 spd 105 shifters aren't a great match
Probably don't need a GRX shifter, can get away with regular 105 - might not be perfect but it'll shift well enough. The issue will be getting a new chainset for the subcompact setup.