Aggressive dangerous tailgating bully

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benb

benb

Evidence based cyclist
Location
Epsom
I do not defend this driver for their shocking driving, but I do not think it is bullying. They did, after all, pull back when you indicated. Poor, but not a bully.


You might be right, but it certainly felt as though they were trying to force me out of the way.
 

BentMikey

Rider of Seolferwulf
Location
South London
In your situation I might well have blown a snot rocket to my right. That gets drivers to back off like nothing else.
 
With trailers, especially ones which take the combined weight over 3500kg, a separate test and licence is required now ( and has been for some time) . That combo is probably over that with out trying.But because parents always towed, they think they can.
Conversely she may just be a poor driver
 

buggi

Bird Saviour
Location
Solihull
Whilst I admit that many of us have done similar (or worse) things, I do think that these things can ramp up hostility and might elicit some sort of unwarranted resentment in the driver being 'punished' or those following that vehicle.

This is not a criticism - I have done much worse. It's just an observation. It might make you feel good for a moment or two, but it avails you (and the rest of us) nought.

On the OP, I am pretty sure (on the basis of no knowledge at all) that that was ignorance and inexperience rather than bullying. Some drivers are simply unaware of how their vehicles might intimidate or present a risk to other road users.

There may also be an element of "Overtake... Ooops, no, I've got a trailer". I've driven with a trailer quite a lot and on a straight road it can be easy to forget it's there until you squeeze the loud pedal and remember the extra mass. I do not defend this driver for their shocking driving, but I do not think it is bullying. They did, after all, pull back when you indicated. Poor, but not a bully.

i'm sure you're right but from the way he beeped me I was pretty certain i was already the subject of unwarranted resentment and so there was absolutely no way i was going to be bulled into submission by him.
 

Rohloff_Brompton_Rider

Formerly just_fixed
Because I want to see my wife and kids and not make my wife a widow, I would have simply pulled in and let her on her way.

I'd rather be wronged and live than prove a point and die these days.
 
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OP
benb

benb

Evidence based cyclist
Location
Epsom
Because I want to see my wife and kids and not make my wife a widow, I would have simply pulled in and let her on her way.

I'd rather be wronged and live than prove a point and die these days.


At the time I didn't think that was an option - I simply didn't trust her not to hit me, no matter how much I pulled in. I'm no good at bunny hopping onto the kerb.
I wasn't trying to prove a point.
 
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