ScotiaLass
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That is something I have found dfficult. You get a diagnosis and then you are basically on your own and have to fight for everything that your child needs to help them.I have friends with an autistic child, and they have been through the mill emotionally. I think the teenage years can be difficult, and at the moment they are trying to make their child more prepared for independent living. It's been a real struggle against the system trying to get help even with a statement etc.
My son is only 13 but I have friends whose children are now adults and getting help as an adult is almost impossible.
The best thing I do for my son is to get him out and about...it's the social situations he finds extremely difficult.
He loves history so we got a Historic Scotland membership and take him out to the properties, which he loves.
It's little steps - like after 2 years he said thank you to the bus driver without being prompted. It may seem silly to others but for us it was a minor miracle and another little step towards his independence.