- he was a sole trader.....
..it turns out the sale of the old company to the new ltd co went through with the proceeds all going straight into partners director account and not 80/20 as I undestood it....
.... so essentially i am helping him sell the company twice (or at least 180%)
Ah, ok. Then there is nothing unusual in what he has done. When a company is set up with assets already belonging to members, it is common practice for those assets to go in as directors' loans. Sometimes those loans have priority over dividends, or carry interest, sometimes not - it depends what is agreed. Looking at it that way, he put in the existing business which he owned 100%, what did you put in?
He
has actually given you 20%. That is, 20% of whatever the business makes in its new format. Not 20% of his existing business. You are getting the 20% for nothing, so it doesn't seem unreasonable to me that he has first shout for the value of what he put in -
provided that is what you agreed you were getting, because if you were told you were getting a share in what he had already built up, you plainly haven't. I think you need to go back through the documents and if need be get clarification from the accountants, who are now the company accountants i.e. not 'his' accountants.
its not a huge company....can potentially turn over 300k..currently 180k because of his leadership
i have someone who is willing to become a shareholder but not a director to help me with a possible buy out
So you value your future contribution at £120,000 a year turnover? Leaving aside the turnover/profit ratio, under the present arrangement you are getting 20% of £180,000 i.e considerably less. Of course, the fixed costs of running your type of business may be similar whether the turnover is £180,000 or £120,000, so the gross profit % will fall faster as turnover falls, but even so the simple figures suggest that you might be better off leaving.
You need to be realistic about this. There is a lot more to running a business than being the person who brings in the work, or even the person who does the work. Not many people are good at all three, because they are different skills. Do you have those skills? How easily could you find your own customers? Your own staff?
I think you also need to take a step back. It is quite possible that you have simply misunderstood the deal; as I say, from the outside, what has happened looks perfectly standard and you haven't been disadvantaged. If you reckon that you are worth £120,000 a year in turnover, there are other less disruptive ways to achieve what you want e.g a performance-related salary, options to buy his shares etc. Get all the facts in your head first then have another discussion with him.
What you can't do is just let it fester. That will waste months/years of your life and his.