Just another thought, with wheel bearings, is to sit the wheel horizontally in a vice, the non adjust side in the jaws and tighten up VERY gently [use a rag around the threads] to just hold the axle still. It's much easier to adjust/tighten - readjust/retighten and you can still feel the freedom of the bearing at the wheel rim.
accountantpete has a good method there but I must admit I tend to avoid usind a spanner on the bearing as I find it too easy to "overcook" the tightening. Still, each to his own on that one.