Flick of the Elbow
Guru
- Location
- Edinburgh
Forget about the 'preprogramming' stuff, at the risk of sounding like a whodunnit it's about motive and opportunity. If the opportunity presents itself do you want to be married and do you as a couple want kids ?
For me I had the good fortune to meet a lovely girl on a cycling holiday 21 years ago. After a little while, getting married just felt right, it still does. I've never felt a great desire for kids but I guess if my wife had, then we'd have had some. But she's never been fussed about having kids either so here we are, late 40's and early 50's, just the two of us and very happy with that.
For me I had the good fortune to meet a lovely girl on a cycling holiday 21 years ago. After a little while, getting married just felt right, it still does. I've never felt a great desire for kids but I guess if my wife had, then we'd have had some. But she's never been fussed about having kids either so here we are, late 40's and early 50's, just the two of us and very happy with that.