Wigsie said:



Whatever!
I can see how in certain situations/locations you can make do without a car but I maintain you can't get by in most parts of the UK without a car and be less stressed transporting the little blighters around.
If dont live in a big city with a good transport system and you want to take them to the zoo, cinema, bowling alley, swimming pool, parks/farms football games, tennis matches visit family that live 50/100 & 300 miles away etc how do you do it?
Yes I do agree with all the above, I do live in London and that is the only reason it is possible, We use a car club for short hires as many journeys are just to the local diy shop or something like that, We can get the kids to anywhere we want by public transport and they get alot more exercise than they would do if we had a car.
For longer journeys we often get the train and with a family rail card it make sthe cost reasonable!! We do feel rather smug about all this as we do not have the extra running costs of keeping a car and it no longer sits outside the house for 3 weeks out of 4, most friends are truely shocked when they find out.
I used to get very distraught when sitting in traffic and everyone in the vehicle with me would get very stressed as the atmosphere worsened, I guess it just happened too often and it started getting to me!
My second son was continuously car sick to the point where we could hardly go anywhere without him puking, that is unless we where very carefull to fill him with drugs and make him wear wrist bands look out the window and eat dry biscuits continuously!
It has now been a year and it has been very liberating for us all I believe I spend more time at home with my kids rather than taking them on huge expeditions and expensive days out that I once presumed was nescessarry! We are now thinking of getting a car again but are tentative about it and now we see the benefits of not having one we will use it in moderation.
I do believe the car rules our society and that it has done our society almost as much harm as it has done good.
Everyone should try this exercise for a minimum of one year as it takes that long to change your mind set, if everyone did this then we would have less congestion on our roads communities would be stronger more together, Fathers and Mothers would not waste there time on a long commute but would work from or closer to home and therefore could spend more time with there families.
The benefits for everyone will not out weigh the limitations but it would give people a different perspective which I believe would be beneficial to all, the environment and society in general.
Cheers.