The ironic thing for me is that you live in a country which, rightly or wrongly, has a reputation for safe roads; I live in a country which, rightly or wrongly, has a reputation for dangerous roads; you find cycling dangerous; I find cycling safe.
Could it be that our perception of what makes roads safe and dangeours is completely warped ? I think it is. From the point of view of a motorist, the roads in the US are safe (low speed limits, large lanes, straight ...); but for cyclists, the US may not be such a safe country - drivers are too relaxed, don't pay attention and think that everyone should drive anywhere that is further than 100 metres. If there's an accident, it'll probably involve two cars and the consequences won't be that great (because the roads are adapted to cars). However, any incident involving a car and a bicycle can be fatal. Here, in France, I think the situation is reversed. Travelling in a car can be very danerous (smaller roads, very high speeds, a driving culture wherby the other driver is the enemy). However, the French are very keen cyclists and overwhelmingly respect cyclists.
Perhaps you should retire in France?