Hi mate. Sorry to trouble you. I know its been a few months since Steve sadly passed. I was down in Bungay a few weeks ago to pay my respects to Steve. Had a pint in the Racehorse at Westall as I knew he liked it there. Can I ask if his family are doing ok ( daft question but..) Are you ok? I only knew him through Strava n Whats App but felt we really made a connection. I thought he was a smashing bloke. He is always on my mind. Just gutted as I know you and all his friends will be. Is the lorry driver being prosecuted? Did he have a funeral? Such a bloody shame. Sorry for all the questions. Kind regards. Shaun
No-no - don’t apologise. If it helps you: ask away.
A really good friend of mine: and someone Steve used to do loads of riding with (Various charity rides, pleasure stuff, 100 Mile Sportives etc etc) for years - went around to see his Widow twice in the near immediate aftermath. Mainly because he had loads of pictures of Steve on his phone that she may have never seen. He printed them out and took them around.
It was very early days at that point - and he said she was still very much coming to terms with it in her own way.
Certainly at first the Funeral was initially being delayed - as I believe they were still struggling to effectively determine the exact cause of death. And I think they wouldn’t release his body at that point ? I’m not sure if you’re aware; but he was cycling into work for his 6am shift start one awful, dark, rainy Morning. Had full hi-vis clothing on, lights on etc - but chose the main road route and somehow got tangled with a lorry. Or possibly two. I believe some of the debate was which lorry hit him. As one them carried on for “a mile” or so only stopping when the other lorry driver behind from the same company radio’d him. Again - I know so many people he worked with who’d probably know the exact truth. But for me that wasn’t important - and I’ve actively avoided and infact a couple of times stopped people telling me some of the ‘details’……..
I also knew the guy very well who was ‘following’ or first on scene in the car behind. And also Travelling into work on the same shift pattern at the same Factory. I heard this and spoke to him a few weeks later - mainly to make sure he was ok. I distinctly told him I didn’t need or want to hear all the gory details. I do believe however - that he tried to perform CPR etc even though he immediately knew it was futile 🙁
Yes - Steve was the salt of the Earth. Always went out of his way to say hello, see me, say something, crack a joke or offer some home-made treats. And there’s various ‘tributes’, boards of condolence, memory boards at his place of work. I’m told his Death, not being around - and infact even his bike not being in the cycle sheds any more - has really effected a few people he spent a lot of time with at work.
So I’m not at all surprised you two connected - even though you’d not actually met. He was that kinda guy 😉
I don’t know about the Lorry driver(s) ? being prosecuted. I shall ask my friend - who knew Steve and his Family way better than I did. He’d know.
And if it helps you understand / clear your head etc - please ask whatever you need to. If I can help: I will.
Cheers 🙏