Of course they are totally different, but it is also what you feel comfortable doing. Mrs TF has a 22 mile commute each way and out of that 44 mikes only 4 are in heavy traffic. Even this is not exactly London but she hates it, the stop start, pollution and inconsiderate drivers.
We have also noted that driving in the countryside within a few miles of the city is particularly dire. It's like the petrol heads escape into the local countryside to blow off steam or something. I'm sure you guys we came up to cycle with on the fixed ride [Stockport] must experience the same thing.
To the OP who rides with earphones in the countryside, yes you are correct, each to his own, I just enjoy listening to birdsong and appreciating where we live with all my senses [not to mention the odd idiot approaching from behind].