I don't really like the whole poppy wearing. I find it to be no different to the bullying wrist bands. Now, I'm indifferent to what people choose to do/not do, wear/not wear. But I do have my own opinions.
There's no "right" way to remember, you don't have to attend a service, you don't have to observe a minute silence, you don't have to donate cash to remember, and respect all those who served. But it seems there's become a socially acceptable way, and unnecessary pressure for people to conform.
Wearing a poppy, I see as nothing more than a public statement that you donated to charity.