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XmisterIS

Purveyor of fine nonsense
Or that's how it feels at least!

I've not been on the bike so much recently due to illness but I'm getting back out there again! (woohoo!)

Whether I'm on my bike, motorcycle or in my car, I always try to be as courteous as possible - e.g. when someone gives way to me I thank them, or when I should give way to someone else, I do so.

Many car drivers have the "two wheels are invisible" attitude - i.e. if I give way in my car they'll thank me, but if I give way on my motorbike or bicycle, they just come roaring past as if I don't exist.


Anyway, I digress. Most of my time over the last 5 weeks has been spent in the car or on the motorbike and I've noticed that a fair few cyclists are just as dismissive of cars as car drivers are of two-wheelers! E.g. I was unpleasantly unsurprised to be reminded just how little regard many car drivers have for cyclists when they carry out the "must pass cyclist" close-pass manoeuvre when I was out on my bicycle on Sunday - and the very same day, in the evening, I was out on my motorbike when a cyclist who should have known better (nice looking road bike and all the gear) went straight out directly infront of me on a roundabout (I was about 10 feet from him), without looking right, and then stopped on the roundabout to shout threats and abuse at me when I pipped my horn at him to let him know I was there. Note: "pipped", not even "beeped" - and used correctly as per the highway code - i.e. to alert another road user to one's presence.

My philosophy is that so long as I do the polite thing, then I'm doing what I can to be courteous and conscientious on the road and also promote the good image of whatever vehicle I am riding/driving in the eyes of users of other vehicles. I'm certainly no saint, I do get pissed off, but I don't act out on it, and if I make a mistake I apologise.

Can you imagine how pleasant and cheery travelling around would be if everyone did that?! Wow, it would be just fantastic! Seriously. My message to anyone getting on the road is keep your wits about you and, for God's sake, leave your anger and aggression at home and like Bill and Ted said, "be excellent to each other!" When I'm out on the road I don't fancy being the butt-end of someone else's miss-placed aggression or victim to their one-sided view of road use (often that everyone else is in their way).
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Jezston

Über Member
Location
London
*applause*

My attitude is NO ONE is more important than anyone else. Everyone deserves to be treated with dignity and respect. And are we really in that much of a hurry?

I once gave way to about 4 cars coming out of a left hand side road to turn right across me - I couldn't go anywhere anyway because the road was gridlocked past the junction. Each and every one of those drivers gave a 'thank you' wave to a cyclist. To a cyclist I tell you!
 

jonny jeez

Legendary Member
Its just you and James May then XminsterIS. I recall he advocates "Christian Driving".

Makes sense to me too, although I do it just to save getting worked up, not to try and "push" a message of courtesy. I mostly just want to have a nice day.
 

nightoff

New Member
Location
Doncaster
+1 for showing a little courtesy.

Yesterday i was cycling out of a village with roadworks. Oncoming traffic was backed up for as far as I could see down the road. As the road was narrow, the few cars behind me couldn't pass. After about 200m I pulled over to let them overtake. 3 of the 4 car which went past acknowledged me with a wave.

I probably see the same cars each day and would like to think that what goes round comes round. Karma and all that.
 

upsidedown

Waiting for the great leap forward
Location
The middle bit
I let a bus pull out of a t-junction yesterday , he was turning right. He looked genuinely astonished that a cyclist would do that. I do try to practice thepeaceful cyclist thing but I can fly off the handle when provoked; something I'm not proud of.
 

slowmotion

Quite dreadful
Location
lost somewhere
In heavy traffic on the Earls Court Road this morning, I stopped to let a lady join from a side turning....and she was in a Range Rover as well. Saintly, or what?
 
Got three indicator flash thankyou's for letting people past on roads with cars parked both sides tonight...over undertook them all on the cycle lane on the next road and waved my appreciation
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