- Location
- Inside my skull
Please explain where the "force" comes in to this. A little bit OTT. You clearly haven't read his follow-up post.
The OP has not been back to this thread with a follow up post. Maybe they were trolling the helmet debate.
(my bold)Thing is, my wife will go bananas if she sees me setting off without one. She doesn't cycle and has no interest at all in hearing the various arguments
This is a bit I see as using force, not all force is physical, and this very much looks like what I’d call controlling behaviour.
All the OP wants to do is decide for themselves when to wear a helmet. They want quite reasonably not to wear the helmet they own when out on a short trip, such as to the doctors. This should not result in their partner going bananas and refusing to discuss it.
Let me paint a scenario, a woman wants to have a night out with her colleagues from work. Some of these colleagues are male. No partners have been invited or will be present. It’s a work do. Her husband goes bananas, tells her she can’t go, and refuses to discuss it with her. Is this reasonable behaviour?