Pre-Lactate? Isn't that the watery stuff that comes out of womens boobies before the proper stuff?
Reminds me of a neat little story, I take my daughter to nursery with a tommee tippee cup of expressed milk from my wife and as soon as I put it down on the table you can bet that some other kid will pick it up and start drinking it!!
Mind you, the first thing she did on her first day was to crawl up to some watery eyed kid with immense amounts of snot coming from his nose and take his dummy out of his mouth and pop it straight into hers
If you are making the tea properly, in a teapot, the milk should be in the cup first. There is a reason for this. With the milk in the cup first, when the hot tea enters the cup, there is more milk than scalding tea so the milk does not scald and change flavour. This is because milk has a lower boiling point than water. If it was the other way round, there would be more boiling water than milk, so the milk would scald and the flavour would alter.