I’m a stickler for the rules. I stop at red lights. I don’t ride on the pavement. And so on.
It is with some pride that I have influenced the group I ride with to behave the same. We ride MTBs once a week as a group, in the evening. There is one particular junction we often negotiate that, when I first rode with them they would either ride through the red or hop on the pavement. I always stopped.
This meant that they ended up waiting for me further down the road. Now, since they have to wait anyway, they wait with me at the stop line. And since the first few times they now do it without prompting, without me stopping first and without comment.
My response when they used to comment - “I don’t want to be the guy that reinforces the stereotypes about cyclists”.