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Joe24

More serious cyclist than Bonj
Location
Nottingham
Infact, **** it YC. Have fun with that girl, and have a few more for some fun aswell. Flirt alot, your 14! Get some skills with women.
I did this and look where i am now! I have lots of friends who are girls, i can happily sit down and talk to them, flirt with them, give them dodgy chat up lines and its all fine. Im pretty comfortable with women now, and ive learnt about women along the way.
As someone i cycle with told me, "theres lots of nice women around Joe, dont just stick with one"
I have gone against that though:wacko:
I still think flirting around with one of her good mates is a good idea. Try and do it while she isnt there aswell, just have her for a laugh;)
I always found the girl that isnt shy, but that would get embarrised easy was always the best. I spent from year 8 till i got with the girl im with now, chatting her up. Well giving her bad chat up lines, and it was very very fun.
Listen to this knowledge YC!!!
 
'Kin 'ell, Joe! 18 years old and you've got it sussed! :biggrin: :biggrin:
 

Joe24

More serious cyclist than Bonj
Location
Nottingham
Dayvo said:
'Kin 'ell, Joe! 18 years old and you've got it sussed! :biggrin: :biggrin:

Ive got it all sorted. I stay with this girl until i think it starts going bad, then i get rid of her, and either have one of her friends or just find some new girl and either have her, or one of her friends.
Its all very simple.
Although, a mates GF keeps checking me out:wacko: Shes not that nice though, my GF is ALOT nicer then what she is.
I prefere the girl i have now, shes alot easier to be with
 
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Young Un

Young Un

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Worcestershire
Well, I have been texting her most of the day, and she is being really nice about saying no, and saying that she won't go into details when we get back to school and that we will just try and keep it under the radar, and it's making me realise how much I actually like this girl.

The only thing that has put a downer on my day today was that my mate talked to me on msn and the first thing he said to me was 'I hear you asked the slag out' and that pissed me off big time. yes, she does tend to like to have a good time with lads, but everyone at the moment is calling her a slag and I can't think of a way to stick up for her, although really it isn't my job to. Oh I dunno what I'm on about:wacko:
 

Joe24

More serious cyclist than Bonj
Location
Nottingham
Young Un said:
Well, I have been texting her most of the day, and she is being really nice about saying no, and saying that she won't go into details when we get back to school and that we will just try and keep it under the radar, and it's making me realise how much I actually like this girl.

The only thing that has put a downer on my day today was that my mate talked to me on msn and the first thing he said to me was 'I hear you asked the slag out' and that pissed me off big time. yes, she does tend to like to have a good time with lads, but everyone at the moment is calling her a slag and I can't think of a way to stick up for her, although really it isn't my job to. Oh I dunno what I'm on about:wacko:

Oooooh. Good lad. A slag you probably shouldnt go out with. Just have some 'fun';) with a few times, or more then a few times, while chatting up some other nice girl.
If you have a problem with them calling her a slag. Theres one thing to do, and thats to punch one of them very very hard. Or just let them carry on.
 
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Young Un

Young Un

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Worcestershire
Joe24 said:
Oooooh. Good lad. A slag you probably shouldnt go out with. Just have some 'fun';) with a few times, or more then a few times, while chatting up some other nice girl.
If you have a problem with them calling her a slag. Theres one thing to do, and thats to punch one of them very very hard. Or just let them carry on.

If I punched one of them, I would get beaten up;).

And for once I think you are right Joe, I think she may be a girl that I should just have 'fun' with. And the problem about chatting up another nice girl, is that I don't think I stand a chance with any other nice girls:blush:
 

Joe24

More serious cyclist than Bonj
Location
Nottingham
Young Un said:
If I punched one of them, I would get beaten up;).

And for once I think you are right Joe, I think she may be a girl that I should just have 'fun' with. And the problem about chatting up another nice girl, is that I don't think I stand a chance with any other nice girls:blush:

Ahhh you see YC. You are going about this all wrong. You dont have to be in with a chance. Infact, first time i saw the girl im with now, i didnt think i had a chance. She thought the same about me.
What you need to do YC, is have fun, chat them up anyway. Just go for it. What is there to lose? Have a good laugh with it. Use some dodgy ones, take the piss with it completely. If one starts to like you, then keep it going. Have a laugh, kill the time.
Non of the girls at my school take me seriouse anymore:wacko::biggrin:
If you want advice of how to get with a girl properly, best advice i can give is to just talk with her. I dont mean talk and chat her up, i mean just talk. If you can spend hours just talking to her and having fun, it means something, and shows that you are good together.
I never used a chat up line on my GF at all. I just started to talk to her, got to know her more, and i would spend from about 6 till 11, sometimes 12 in the evenings talking to her on msn. When we are together we talk easily, and everything just seemed to work.
Pushing too hard wont get you anywhere really. You can try your hardest, but really, if its going to work, it will work without you needing to show that your trying hard, or even trying hard:thumbsup:
 

Joe24

More serious cyclist than Bonj
Location
Nottingham
Although, as for punching one of the people thats calling your bitch a slag, go for it. Or at least just tell them to shut up, and show them your not intimidated, and that your seriouse.
I once did something to annoy a girl at my GF's school. I wont put what it was on here, but a few saw the funny side, the girl and her male friends didnt. I went over and they tried to scare me, all sat around in a group trying to scare me. Did it work? No! I even got one with my shoulder as he walked past me the other way when he was with the girl i sent the text to. It bounced him into the girl and i just kept walking.
Basicly YC, i doubt you would get beat up. Most of them just think they are hard because they have people that bum off them for some reason or other, and try and make themself look hard.
 
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Young Un

Young Un

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Location
Worcestershire
Joe24 said:
Although, as for punching one of the people thats calling your bitch a slag, go for it. Or at least just tell them to shut up, and show them your not intimidated, and that your seriouse.
I once did something to annoy a girl at my GF's school. I wont put what it was on here, but a few saw the funny side, the girl and her male friends didnt. I went over and they tried to scare me, all sat around in a group trying to scare me. Did it work? No! I even got one with my shoulder as he walked past me the other way when he was with the girl i sent the text to. It bounced him into the girl and i just kept walking.
Basicly YC, i doubt you would get beat up. Most of them just think they are hard because they have people that bum off them for some reason or other, and try and make themself look hard.

yeah, suspose your right. I'm just gonna keep talkin to the girl and see where things go, and to be honest if it doesn't work out I won't be too bothered. I am happy enough (just about) without a girlfriend and so for me it can stay that way for a bit longer.
 

Joe24

More serious cyclist than Bonj
Location
Nottingham
Young Un said:
yeah, suspose your right. I'm just gonna keep talkin to the girl and see where things go, and to be honest if it doesn't work out I won't be too bothered. I am happy enough (just about) without a girlfriend and so for me it can stay that way for a bit longer.

You just stay with your hand YC;)
 

Joe24

More serious cyclist than Bonj
Location
Nottingham
Young Un said:
Joe I'll have you know that I dont use my 'hand' that often.

Dont lie YC. Your 14, ofcourse you fiddle alot.
Remember, you canbeat an egg, but you cant beat a fiddle.
 
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