I’ve had dogs all my life also, but when my labrador passed I said no more.
We now have a Boston Terrier. She was advertised as a family pet that needed rehoming due to unforeseen circumstances for the family that kept her at the time. Once we’d seen the conditions she was kept in and her situation there was no way she was staying where she was.
She had been used for breeding and in my opinion had never been a pet. Over the last 15 months or so we have succeeded with some training, taught her how to play (I’ve never had a dog that didn’t play at all) and how to be loved (this took forever and was heartbreaking, she had clearly never been given any real attention).
We had her spayed fairly early on recommendation from our vet after some other slight medical issues. When we collected her he told us with tears in his eyes about the mess he found inside her and the difficulties he had completing the procedure due to problems created by the number of ceasarian proc3dures she had endured.
Despite all this over time she has learnt to love and play to such an extent you would think she’s trying to make up for lost time.
I can’t describe how I feel or what I would like to do to the peanut that we rescued her from but am glad we did.
We don’t always have the perfect scenario for dog ownership and this means that as a family we have all had to make sacrifices at one time or another to cater to her needs but a pet is a family member and that is something you need to understand when you take a dog into your home.