Tea? (Part 2)

[twentysix by twentyfive]

for NT.

"Should" and "need" are words frequently used by people to beat themselves up with and if you come across as someone who doesn't give themselves an easy time or puts a lot of demands on oneself, then it tends to set off the Headshrinker's Alarm.

(Excuse the appalling sentence structure, I can't find my brain today.)

Anyone for ?

Ah - that's it Jo. That is the answer!!
My brain has gone too today. Maybe there is a gathering of the brains somewhere.

 

[twentysix by twentyfive]

I'm feeling quite weak, also. If I shout loud enough, I wonder if @wol will make us a

Wol's do have sensitive hearing although I have come across the odd one with selective hearing

 

[twentysix by twentyfive]

Day 2 (proper) of my diet and I've lost 2lbs.....actually I've lost 7lbs and that's just by switching scales - the ones in my son's bedroom seem to be a bit kinder than the ones in the bathroom.

Weighing, then peeing and poohing, then weighing again don't count

 

[Speicher]

Anyone for ?

 

[Archie_tect]

Time to go home... Archie is waving goodbye,... goodbye.... goodbye

 

[potsy]

Anyone for ?

 

[Archie_tect]

[I'm still here....]

 

[phil_hg_uk]

 

[twentysix by twentyfive]

Sleep tight Archie

 

[Night Train]

for NT.

"Should" and "need" are words frequently used by people to beat themselves up with and if you come across as someone who doesn't give themselves an easy time or puts a lot of demands on oneself, then it tends to set off the Headshrinker's Alarm.

(Excuse the appalling sentence structure, I can't find my brain today.)

Anyone for ?

That is what she was saying.

However, I 'should' get myself some work and earn some money. It isn't a preference as I would prefer not to but I will eventually loose my benefit income and then put undue financial stress on those I love.
I 'need' to feel useful without feeling like I am being used. I 'need' to sort my head out before it gets too much for me to deal with.

What I am saying is that right now I feel I should be getting myself in a position where I don't need to feel I should have to, and I need to get myself better before there is no more 'me' to get better.
Take the 'should' away and I will stop bothering. Take the 'need' away and I won't need therapy.
Argue semantics with me every time I open my mouth and I will walk away before I have got to the bottom of why I feel like this and nothing will be achieved.

Often I feel like I am hanging on [the edge of a cliff], just, by my finger tips and I could do with a rope throwing down, not a discussion about the type of rope or a lesson in tying knots.
"Just throw the bloody rope before I slip off!"

" Just hear me out before you tell me what you think of my vocabulary."
Chucking me out when I was about to didn't help.


Sorry for that, really needed to vent a bit but had to hold it together to get the plastering done.
Done two walls and a ceiling. The other two walls can be done on Saturday.

 

[Arch]

That is what she was saying.

However, I 'should' get myself some work and earn some money. It isn't a preference as I would prefer not to but I will eventually loose my benefit income and then put undue financial stress on those I love.
I 'need' to feel useful without feeling like I am being used. I 'need' to sort my head out before it gets too much for me to deal with.

What I am saying is that right now I feel I should be getting myself in a position where I don't need to feel I should have to, and I need to get myself better before there is no more 'me' to get better.
Take the 'should' away and I will stop bothering. Take the 'need' away and I won't need therapy.
Argue semantics with me every time I open my mouth and I will walk away before I have got to the bottom of why I feel like this and nothing will be achieved.

Often I feel like I am hanging on [the edge of a cliff], just, by my finger tips and I could do with a rope throwing down, not a discussion about the type of rope or a lesson in tying knots.
"Just throw the bloody rope before I slip off!"

" Just hear me out before you tell me what you think of my vocabulary."
Chucking me out when I was about to didn't help.


Sorry for that, really needed to vent a bit but had to hold it together to get the plastering done.
Done two walls and a ceiling. The other two walls can be done on Saturday.

Big

And also, TWO WALLS AND A CEILING!

Blimey, that's loads! Well done!

So, I need to pack my plastering trousers then?

(I don't actually have any plastering trousers, they are metaphorical...)

 

[Night Train]

Big

And also, TWO WALLS AND A CEILING!

Blimey, that's loads! Well done!

So, I need to pack my plastering trousers then?

(I don't actually have any plastering trousers, they are metaphorical...)

Yes! You will be plastering on Saturday.

My right shoulder aches from doing the ceiling! Good thing it is a small room.
I shall get some skirtings and architraves tomorrow, and some paint, so that can be prepped too.

 

[Arch]

Yes! You will be plastering on Saturday.

My right shoulder aches from doing the ceiling! Good thing it is a small room.
I shall get some skirtings and architraves tomorrow, and some paint, so that can be prepped too.

Yay! I'm looking forward to having a go, I hope I can be useful. At the least, I can paint woodwork!

Busy day today. Work over ran by an hour.

Just had a pork steak, mash and sweetcorn for dinner though

 

[TVC]

We're just off out for a run - we may not be gone for some time.

 

[marafi]

Yorkshire tea with biscuits. Must cycle during the errr weekend...