Trials and tribulations of the working week ....

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OP
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Fab Foodie

Fab Foodie

hanging-on in quiet desperation ...
Location
Kirton, Devon.
You do so much travelling, FF, I envy you! Many of your posts revolve around travel and all along I'm thinking 'lucky bugger, I'd love to do that'.
It depends whether you can do it on your own terms or not, there are times and places when it's great and other occasions where it can be quite a pain. For example I've missed a lot of special family occasions and it puts extra pressure on Mrs FF to take care of the family issues whilst I'm sitting in 4 star luxury (ok, not always). It's also impossible to commit to weekday events or have a terribly organised social life. Customer plans change quickly, weekends get eaten into, you're never sure how many shirts to pack and you get fed-up with packing and unpacking bags.
On the flip side, over the past 25 years I've seen a lot of fabulous places, seen much of the world for 'free' met some great people and experienced things I would never have dreamt of if it wasn't for work. But it is hard, it takes it's toll.
 

SpokeyDokey

68, & my GP says I will officially be old at 70!
Moderator
I think that your job sounds interesting - think of the poor sods that go to the same place day in and day out year after year.

Before I semi-retired I too had jobs involving lots of planes, trains, automobiles, hotels and meeting after meeting etc. Bloody brilliant. Long live variety.

Maybe a different job is what is needed?
 
OP
OP
Fab Foodie

Fab Foodie

hanging-on in quiet desperation ...
Location
Kirton, Devon.
I think that your job sounds interesting - think of the poor sods that go to the same place day in and day out year after year.

Before I semi-retired I too had jobs involving lots of planes, trains, automobiles, hotels and meeting after meeting etc. Bloody brilliant. Long live variety.

Maybe a different job is what is needed?

Oh don't get me wrong, I love my job, that's why I throw myself into it with great gusto. I'd be loathed to change it, I pity those that are stuck in the same place day after day, but sometimes you hanker for a bit of stability and certainty ... just for a few days at least. This week has just been one of those weeks. To cap it all having arrived home just an hour ago after a 440 mile non-stop (other than the tunnel) journey home, Mrs FF has pointed-out twice that I don't do much around the house and then said that due to all the delays all I've been doing is hanging around this week rather than 'working'. :cursing: Am very zarked-off right now, what's the zarking point of busting my zarking arse if that's all they think?
Maybe I should bust a gut for somebody more appreciative ....
 

gbb

Squire
Location
Peterborough
today was meant to be my first day back this week after illness
got up, went to the docs for a blood test... last time i nearly fainted afterwards. this time i took something to nibble afterwards and took it slowly. sat in the waiting room afterwards and my temperature rocketed and pulse went up... felt very ill... ran to the loo and threw up.
as i'd fasted for 12 hours, wasn't much to bring back, but my body tried. the doc was caring, said "does this happen after every blood test?" i could't answer as i was puking. she then closed the toilet door and left me there.

went home.
Hiya Laurence :hello: welcome back !! Get well soon....

You do so much travelling, FF, I envy you! Many of your posts revolve around travel and all along I'm thinking 'lucky bugger, I'd love to do that'.

As FF says, it does take it's toll. I did about 5 years of travelling for my company, and that was only usually twice a year, but it does impact on your health a bit. Different foods, uncertain travelling times, pressure on you to get things done, sometimes 9000 miles from home, language difficulties, production pressures, technical issues....it started me smoking after 20 plus years off the weed (thankfully ive stopped again), plus occasional marital pressures come into play, it all racks up. I'm not a big fella, but i lost 1 stone on a 2 week trip to S America and it took me nearly a year to put it back on. My desire for food after two weeks of bland uninspiring food, just evaporated.
Stuck in Cyprus when the volcano went up, cost me £1000 because the wife came with me as a treat (i paid of course), the costs were racking up (and the stress) as days went by.
Highs and lows...you really get into it while you're away, achieve so much...then i used to get virtually depressed with the humdrum of 'normal' work when i got back.
But then, travelling business class occasionally, staying in good hotels, working with people that really appreciate what you're doing for them, the kudos you gain with your colleagues and management, eating different food when its decent, enjoying the challenges that come when talking to people who have little or no English, seeing places you'd never normally see (some places so grimy and poor, its an eye opener) etc etc etc...its brilliant
I miss it now...and yet i don't.
 
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