Great discussion.
I’ve concluded over the years that there is no correct way to wrap bars. But there sure are wrong ways.
I’ve recently switched wrapping out-to-in (anti-clockwise on RHS) and continuing same direction on top. My rational is that the direction should ensure that as you grip the bars the natural twisting motion should tighten, not loosen the tape. I noticed that with my flared 44cm bars my wrists role such that the my hand is turning in towards the frame. I therefore decided to mimic this with wrapping. (On less flared and narrower bars my writs tend to rotate away from the frame)
On endurance bike I have some gel fillets(?) under the tape - can’t remember where I got them from but they’ve outlasted multiple sets of bartape. Having large hands I find the increase in dimension and comfort most welcome.
I have, when I can be bothered, used the method of wrapping electrical tape sticky side out at the bottom of the drops to help keep take secure. I think I took this from Clavin’s videos on wrapping bars.