There can be. I think the truth is that kids of that age are, above all, incredibly impressionable. They take their cues from those above, and those determine how they sort out peer issues. Dogs are much the same. Find a happy, well-balanced dog and you'll invariably find its owner is good people. Find a mean, spiteful brat, and you'll generally find its parents are not nice people. It's not always the case, but I bet if you did a bit of homework at that school you'd find it has a really good head, whose leadership sets the tone for the way everyone in that community behaves. When I used to write on management, they called it 'the way we do things round here'.there's a lovely innocence to children of that sort of age
You say that, but I met a girl exactly the same (well lost her arm to cancer) and I was impressed to see that sentence didn't apply apart from shoe lacesWe had a girl at School when we were about 13, who lost her right arm following a Cancer, and had a prosthetic limb
The Form Teacher was brilliant keeping us informed and there were no issues at all when she returned, simply an acceptance that there were some things she could not do, and would need help