@daisyj I am terrified of descending too, and that's on hybrids, as my road bike has been a wall ornament since I bought it, as I'm terrified of it on the flat

For some strange reason, rim brakes give me more confidence, I feel I can control the bike better.
I do the "feathering" thing, but after reading
@Yellow Saddle's post I'm going to start using only my front brake downhill, maybe it will feel better.
Question:
what do you do if riding a steep downhill and needing to turn right in the middle of it, but also maybe you need to stop for incoming traffic, and of course signal right?