I have never done fishless cycling - preferring to stock a new tank with, say, two or three (in 54 litre) Platies and being fastidious with early water changes until there is zero nitrite in the water. Get a testing kit and learn about the "Nitrogen Cycle".
IMHO fishless cycling all falls to bits when you get your first livestock anyway, so cycle with fish.
YMMV
This. You need something in there to generate the ammonia, you could use a piece of prawn and let it decay and some people even advocate weeing in the tank!
Personally, as above, I'd start with a couple of hardy fish.
I never bothered with all the testing faff Gromit, ive had 2, 3 and 6ft tanks over the years, just set it up, run the filter for a week and then add fish (all the usual suspects, Gouramis, Tiger Barbs, Angels, tetras, bottom feeders (look like bulldogs, can't remember the name), etc etc etc..never had problems.
I guess if you intend keeping something unusual then testing may be neccessary, but all the normal fish you buy at garden centres/aquarists are pretty hardy.
As others have said, a 20% water change weekly and i used to syphon the detritis off the floor of the tank with a length of hose into a bucket.
TBF, i did always try to get the best or biggest filter i could afford for the tank size...and made sure i cleaned that regularly.
This too.
It may give you the reassurance if you test the water, but the fact is that you need the ammonia then nitrite spike to kickstart the filter bacteria before they start to drop.
If you stock slowly, and carry out your water changes, they'll never be a problem so don't get too wrapped up in all the tech talk on forums, sometimes you just need to get on with it. Bit like here really, some threads go on for pages and pages when the real answer is just gt out and ride your bike
To save the faff and expense of buying test kits, most good LFS's will test the water for you either for free or for a minimal charge. Just don't get suckered into buying all the recommended treatments when something is slightly outside spec...
another quick point, and apologies if I'm teaching you to suck eggs, always wash your filter media in old tank water (from the water change,) never tap water. The chlorine in tap water will kill off all the bacteria that have built up.
Good luck, and post pictures