I have spent a lot of money *to me* & to many other cyclists on bikes, go faster wheels, bling, Rapha etc.
Recently I did a particularly tough sportive, at least I thought it was. I was passed with ease by a great many ladies & gents much older than me in basic attire, on basic & likely fairly heavy bikes compared to mine, while I got off & pushed with my head down in embarrassment.
O.k, I could blame it on bad prep or that I hadn't eaten enough etc, but the fact is I had an epiphany.
None of the bling BS matters.
& it's not about the bike, kit, bling. It's about the enjoyment, achievements, friendships, health & camaraderie, about folk stopping to see if you are o.k or offering up encouragement & about giving your expensive inner tube to a bloke who has had 3 punctures.
Go ride your bike & make proper plonkers of folk like me, it can & does change us.