I like an occasional drink, but don't drink out of habit, and can't rememebr the last time I went to the pub for a drink alone.
I used to smoke like a chimney, loved my roll-ups and used to get through half ounce of Drum every day. Gave up in August and don't miss them now!
Anorak, I know the feelings that prompted this. It seems an awful lot of people expect you to drink regularly, and suggest you're a bit weird if you don't? That's their problem, literally.
I personally like to stay in control of what I say and do, so even if I'm having a drink now I very rarely get hammered. I'm too old to enjoy hangovers, and so now tend to head for a decent session bitter and enjoy several, so I'm buzzing and relaxed rather than aresholed like back in the Rugby/early work years where a 12 hour "througher" would see me enjoying anywhere between 20 and 30 pints.
I can think of better things to spend that sort of money on now anyway. Repeat those sorts of sessions twice a month and you've spent the equivalent of a top quality wheelset by Easter!
The biggest thing though is setting an example to the kids. Mine have seen me drink over the course of a sociable evening for example on holiday, or when friends are round to dinner. They have only ever seen me really pissed once, and apparently they said I was just talking crap and heading for bed!

What also helps is that our friends are of the same mindset.. sociable moderate drinking with only the occasional "one too many"
I was having a chat with the kids the other day about drinking and we were able to get across the idea that you can have a drink and enjoy yourself without getting utterly w*nkered. As a town centre cop I see people who genuinely believe that if you start to drink you have somehow failed if you don't reach the vomitting and hands and knees stage. That's where it all seems so wrong... that the ONLY result of drinking is incapacity.