Well, I went to the shop I mentioned earlier today and I have hopefully choosen what I'm going to get!
They were very helpful and explained things a lot and when I had mentioned what I had been told about things like bottom brackets and other places trying to up sell, they understood and said that I didn't really need to worry about things like that. They also said that the position of the down shifter doesn't really matter because you are normally only on the drops going down hill and most people spend most of their time on the shifters. My opinion is that I don't know any different so I'll need to get used to either way what ever. They also talked about 8/9/10 gears and said that even with 9 you can still upgrade to 10 and for what I want the bike for, 8 wouldn't be a problem.
I also mentioned the Boardman because of the discounts on at the moment brought it in-line price wise with what I was looking at but he didn't really rate them because if the problems they had with one a customer brought in for a service.
Anyway, I am thinking I'm going to go for the
Specialized Secteur Triple, one of the reasons being that the geometry makes it a bit easier on the body and it's around the right price point. The 2013 colour like nice as well. It may not be the best in the world, but it fits what I would like to use it for and I can afford it

I just thought that I would be spending a bit more for the Boardman only because of the discounts and nearly everyone I have spoken to has good things to say about Specialized bikes.
Only thing is, they are not getting them in until the end of next month and I'm good at being impatient. So, I've got lots of time to still um and ah unless it comes into stock sooner or I source it else where!