Simon,
Fantastically well organised as always. I really don't think you should beat yourself up too much over the food stop. I know your feelings about overloaded riders, but sometimes I think that if a few more riders were carrying sandwiches, then some of your problems would go away. However, I've always eaten where we have arranged to out of respect for the people who have made the effort to open up for us.
It is easy to look back though and remember the days when we were smaller and when we stopped at TT's house. A lot of the food was carried by the riders and shared out amongst us.
I wonder whether, with a suitable hut, we might be able to do something like this again?
It did add to the camerarderie and gave us something to talk about even if it was detailed questioning about the recipies involved!!