Found out today we're seperating

[Accy cyclist]

I went round to a customers house to do the windows today. He's not just a customer but a friend of my wife's from work and i'd class him as a friend of mine as well. He looked a bit glum, then said "I'm sorry to hear about you and (Wife's name)". Why what've you heard i asked. "That you're separating" he said. It hit me like a brick! I know we are going through a bad time at home and i've had strong suspicions that she's been seeing someone else but to broadcast it on social media and without me and her actually deciding that we are to separate, then it's a bit bad i'd say! My head's been in a spin since i heard. I'm dreading her coming home. Before anyone says i'm doing the same announcing it on social media please remember i'm not giving out identities like she's done.Anyway,i'm getting ready to go out before she gets home. It might be cowardly but i can't face her.

 

[Lonestar]

Good luck me old mate.....

 

[Roadrider48]

Bad luck mate. Sorry to hear it.

 

[Nibor]

Good luck buddy keep your chin up and look after yourself.

 

[annedonnelly]

Oh dear, you've posted on here about being unhappy together, but that is a truly awful thing to do. She's a coward if she can't sit down with you and discuss your relationship before telling anyone else.

Very, very sad.

 

[Accy cyclist]

Good luck buddy keep your chin up and look after yourself.

That's what many have told. Look after yourself Selfish but a necessity

 

[MarkF]

Yikes, hope things are not as bad as you are assuming.

 

[Levo-Lon]

Lock the doors and tell her to fook off..
after throwing her shoot on the path of course...get it done move on

 

[Accy cyclist]

She's in the kitchen making some tea. She hasn't spoken since she came in 15 minutes ago..neither have i. The friend told me she'd taken her wedding ring off. I'm going to have to find out. If she has it's curtains for us.

 

[TVC]

Sorry to hear this, be selfish, be angry, but be better than her.

 

[Fnaar]

Sorry to hear that, good luck fella

 

[GrumpyGregry]

Put yourself first but don't say or do anything you might later have cause to regret.

 

[Mrs M]

Sorry to hear this

 

[Accy cyclist]

Thanks for the replies so far. I won't like them because it makes it looks like i'm treating this thread without the seriousness i intended.

 

[Accy cyclist]

I didn't want to look at the Facebook message but the friend's partner told me it was in bold letters. I then asked them to show me but they said it'd upset me. I can't look myself.