^^ As I said about half way through this thread.
But thank you all, yet again, for opinions you have offered.
Interestingly, I see a lot more responses if I don't log on. Many of them disappear when I do log on.
But there are some interesting, and varied opinions offered. For those of you who were conjecturing at my competence, no, I am not a "qualified engineer". But as one poster has pointed out, to declare myself as one, or give greater credence to somebody who did declare themselves as such, would be a perfect example of the fallacy of an appeal to authority.
My approach to my work on my own bike (which I did build up from a naked frame, by the way) has been to follow all instructions scrupulously. I have 4 torque wrenches (3 clicker, one beam, for the LH threads). The larger clickers are Teng, which I believe are a fairly well respected brand. And although I haven't had them re-calibrated, I take care to slacken them to their lowest setting, they are stored in a warm house, and the only use they see is occasionally on the bike. I use Zinn as my reference for torque wrench settings. Maybe I am one of the "ham-fisted" idiots that others refer to, but having watched qualified "tradesmen" in all sorts of situations, I suspect I'm no more "ham-fisted" than some people who actually get paid for allegedly skilled work. I even torque things like cable clamps, stems etc. on. Recently, fitting a new rack, I followed Tubus' astonishingly precise torque setting of 4.3 Nm. Friends who make up their own bikes are astonished that I bother, but there you go.
I am also aware that there is, or at least used to be, some discussion around whether square taper spindles should be lubricated or not. As far as I can tell the current opinion is yes, but lightly. Which is what I do, but am careful not to exceed recommended torque settings, as it is so much easier to over tighten if lubricated. I hope I've never overtighted the crank. Yes, I also lubricate the bolt, lightly. I have a variety of lubricants and anti-seize compounds which I try to use appropriately. In the early days I obviously did under tighten a crank. As it became loose soon after making the bike up, I didn't ride it for very long before I found the error. I don't use that bottom bracket any more, or the cranks (I think).
Some of the feedback has been useful. My prediction is that the cranks will probably be on and off a few times, while I try out various options, make adjustments, and so on, and then will stay on either permanently, or change very infrequently, if at all.
As to "why" and my reasons for not disclosing, that is best explained if I give an example of an imaginary discussion on an internet forum, like this one, on any subject:
"Hi folks. I was think of replacing the discomknockerator on my bloggs and smith fuffle valve with a 42mm one. Will that work?"
"Why on earth would you do that. Good old 1.5 inches fuffle valves are fine. They were good enough when I were a lad, these new metric ones are rubbish"
or
"Nobody uses fuffle valves anymore. They are old hat, it's 2025 now grandad, fuffle valves were replaced with bluttering pins years ago"
or any variety of similar responses.
If one has the temerity to say why one wants to use a 42 mm fuffle valve - "so I can fit a durdle-pin" - then there follows a whole barrage of:
"Durdle-pins are only for amateurs, real furtle-wranglers don't use them"
or it's close cousin
"Durdle pins are only for professional furtle-wranglers, don't waste your money"
or a whole slew of why durdle-pins are a really bad idea. Even though fitting a durdle-pin wasn't actually the question.
Cheers