ColinJ
Puzzle game procrastinator!
- Location
- Todmorden - Yorks/Lancs border
I knew more (academically) than my parents by the time I was 11 so I never asked them for help with my homework. I asked my teachers in class when I didn't understand something and they never set me homework on subjects that they hadn't fully covered in class. If any pupil didn't understand something, the teacher would help them and that is what they are paid to do.wrong, learning is a process that continues at home with the support of parents/adults with parental responsibility ( PC obblocks) . it is not something that should be done only by teachers between 8.30 and 3.30. there are a lot of teachers who understand things one way when there are lots of ways of getting the same result. you may have been able to explain the problem slightly differently to the teacher and your neice may have "got it" I had terrible trouble understanding triangle theorems at preGCSE ( old 3rd year secondary). i asked another maths teacher to explain and got a different explanation that made sense and it was easy after that. I asked my parents with a lot of maths and science but both of them never finished school formally so didn't have a clue. nature ,english, history yes - but sciences no chance.
eldest in in KS2 year and we are helping her with the mental maths in a way that she doesn't realise she is being helped. watching the darts and snooker is fun with this. shiopping is also great for this
I agree that it is good for parents to help their children when they can, but let's face it - if you have to ask on a forum about how to do your child's homework, then you don't understand it any better than they do!
I think that searching for information online is an essential skill these days, and time would be better spent teaching your children to do that than doing their research for them. So, if I had a daughter and she asked me for help I would show her how to use Google to find help, and how to evaluate what results Google came up with. That's what I was trying to do with my niece, since I can't be on the end of a phone every time she is late with her homework or hasn't been paying attention in class. My sister was indignant that I wouldn't just dictate the answer over the phone, but I insisted on my niece understanding the problem and finding the answer herself. I phoned them back later and my niece read out the answer that she had come up with. The steps she had followed were correct, but she had made a mistake in the final calculation. I told her where she had gone wrong, and then explained the importance of checking her results, and went into some detail about how to do that.
I'm not suggesting that parents should not help their children - I'm saying that doing their work for them doesn't help them in the long run!