puddleglum
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Arch said:Bah. About 6 weeks to go for me...
Not that it matters, I'm still waiting to find out what I want to do when I grow up.
HelenD123 said:PARTY! We can have a joint Amsterdame drink and 40th celebration for you.![]()
Headgardener said:49 here. T'would seem that rather than being a young forum most of us (well 29 at the last count anyway) are "old enough to be the fathers"
Arch said:I have no idea when you are meant to be grown up. Couple of weeks ago was out with some friends and they were all talking about houses and kids and the like and it felt like a double edged sword. They all said "oh, but you've got no responsibilities" like it's the best thing ever and it's sort of true, but on the other hand, all those things also carry a certain degree of happiness with them... Also, it's not really like I've chosen to be that way, it's just how it's happened...
HelenD123 said:I think you just have to find the best in the situation you find yourself in. There can always be a 'grass is greener' aspect to life but there's no point wasting effort envying what other people have. Make the most of the lack of responsibilities as you never know when your life will turn a corner and take you down a different path.
BigonaBianchi said:17 still