Is it disrespectful to ask how much you earn in the workplace ?

Is it disrespectful to ask how much you earn in the workplace ?


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Milkfloat

An Peanut
Location
Midlands
It's a bit impolite to ask. However, a colleague once revealed that he was earning more than me, so I called a meeting with my line manager to request that I be put on the same salary on the basis that I did more work than him anyway. My request was accepted!

But did you get back pay?
 

marinyork

Resting in suspended Animation
Location
Logopolis
I think 'impolite' might be a better word than 'disrespectful', seeing as we're talking about conversations amongst equals.

Workplace etiquette (aside from most of what I've written above) probably made a lot of sense in the past where we had lifelong careers or ones that could be said to approximate that a lot closer than what we have now.

A lot of the problems arise where unofficial practices go on for a long time. Sort of thing I'm talking about is a manager being off sick and a colleague unofficially runs the department for six months and then a year later leaves and colleague applies for managers job and is told the company has no recollection of them effectively being a manager for six months.
 

Tin Pot

Guru
There is a good argument that knowing what people earn helps promote equality. The counter argument is in people not understanding why Joe Bloggs position attracts more than theirs and them bleating about it at every damn appraisal.

On the face of it I'm all for people knowing what others earn but the practicalities mean it often causes a lot more friction than it really should but perhaps in a completely open system that wouldn't happen.

Anyway the more you earn, you'd better make sure you're indispensable as otherwise the next time that organogram gets re-drawn you might not be on it!

Indeed there is but I think fighting privacy is the wrong approach.

Regulation and internal audit should be covering this behind the scenes.
 

GrumpyGregry

Here for rides.
I would not even ask the question. To many people its rather personal and the question intent is do a comparison of skill and reward. If not why ask. Sometimes it leads to unpleasant consequences but mostly you will be known as the bloke that asked the awkward question and it will hang over you as a label.

What you can however do is to request HR to provide an industry benchmark and your current remuneration. If it is medium size to a large company they are obliged to provide the answer and address the discrepancy. I have seen 2 benchmarks and the the details of vocations and grade are quite granular and values are validated every 2 to 3 years .
Are they? I'm not at all certain they have to do either simply because of the scale of operation.
 

GrumpyGregry

Here for rides.
Workplace etiquette (aside from most of what I've written above) probably made a lot of sense in the past where we had lifelong careers or ones that could be said to approximate that a lot closer than what we have now.

A lot of the problems arise where unofficial practices go on for a long time. Sort of thing I'm talking about is a manager being off sick and a colleague unofficially runs the department for six months and then a year later leaves and colleague applies for managers job and is told the company has no recollection of them effectively being a manager for six months.
Never "act up" unofficially. Ever. Even if they don't pay you, and some won't, make sure a record of your service goes in your record. For all sorts of reasons.
 

Amanda P

Legendary Member

View: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7xH7eGFuSYI


Adam explains it pretty succinctly, and amusingly, I reckon. Shame we Brits are so reticent.
 

slowmotion

Quite dreadful
Location
lost somewhere
The Sami people, who herd reindeer in the frozen wastes of Finland,Sweden and Norway, judge their wealth by the size of their herd. It's very bad form to ask one how many animals he owns.
 

GrumpyGregry

Here for rides.
The Sami people, who herd reindeer in the frozen wastes of Finland,Sweden and Norway, judge their wealth by the size of their herd. It's very bad form to ask one how many animals he owns.
Notoriously touchy people the Sami. But 10,000 years* of marginalisation will do that to you.

*may be an exaggeration.
 
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