Well accept my apologies.... but let me explain ....
You see, as you and Terrie were kind enough to 'wait' for TJ, Butterfly and Nye whilst baby feeding et al, then I thought that 'ladies in waiting' was a humerous old-fashioned moniker for the two of you in this particular case ... 'Gracie' also having old fashioned connotations in that respect. Nothing more sinister, no attempt to demean or belittle or imply that you're slow, you're clearly not and much faster than I

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** To be fair, being faster than me is not much of an endorsement!