Lap Dancers

[trustysteed]

I had similar feelings after falling off at my first attempt at cycling, but I persisted and have come to quite enjoy it.

they do say you should get back on the bikehorse...

 

[Speicher]

This kind of thing?
View: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Qs4JvYIzj5U


Don't see the appeal myself.

I would like to try it! Especially the footwork!

 

[tdr1nka]

I'm in the "don't understand it" section here. I suppose now I'm content at home the thought of spending twenty or thirty quid to look at a g-string close up is alien, when I have to think twice about spending that sort of dosh on non-essentials........ but even when I was single, the thought of spending cash on someone I can't touch etc etc would be ludicrous.

No, I find it sad on the part of the punters, and extremely exploitative on the part of the clubs. My thoughts towards the girls are mixed, as I meet a lot of women tangled up in the adult sex industry, and can only feel genuine pity on the majority of occasions.

+1

 

[Brahan]

I went to a strip bar in Harrogate with a some work colleagues. It was crap....

Whilst on the face of it you're drinking beer, telling filthy jokes, swearing and talking manly talk about, 'what you'd do to that bird's arse' etc you're actually only standing in a darkened club with a loads of other men in a state of semi arousal. Yeah some girl may ask if you want to see her fanny in exchange for a bit of cash but that's about it.

Hang on, that sounds like my local.....

 

[chap]

I went to a club once. I had a brief stint (I lfet under a cloud - I wrote one of my best short stories based on it!) working with a load of money obsessed muppets at a large multinational: we went to Browns in London. I just felt a bit bored. Attractive women who thought the blokes were tits. Someone insisted I had a private dance. I obliged and smiled and nodded a bit. She kissed me on the cheek and said something sweet - I think she thought I was shy. I was just not very interested and being polite. Someone with no attraction to me, and who I had no interest in, sticking her arse in my face and touching herself just didn't seem really erotic to me. She was very attractive. But so what? What is the 'best' that can happen? You get a hard on? Wow!

How very true. Although, I kind of feel sorry for the people that go there, wasting their money on manufactured fruitless 'encounters'.

Then again, I remember watching some sordid documentary and apparently if you go to the 'right' ones, you can get more than a back-room dance (no pun intended): pity them even more.

I think Lap dance bars are best left to adolescents and old men.

 

[Fnaar]

Went to a mate's stag do last Novmember. beers = fun. Curry = fun. Lap dancing club = well, I have to say the women were gorgeous, but like someone said above, it's semi-arousal, and you can't do anything. So, er... don't see the point.

 

[trustysteed]

they're just fluffers for the 'hand release' back home later

 

[jamesxyz]

stag dos only and then just an (expensive) laugh with loads of mates. To go regularly seems a bit sad.

Wot about live sex shows (as in Amsterdam) - same or different?
Less personal but more pervy? Although plenty of women do go to them ...

 

[ComedyPilot]

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[rich p]

My ex-business partner is a single bloke of 18stone of solid lard and his annual holiday is 10 days in Vegas alternating between lap dancing clubs and casinos. He thinks I'm a weirdo going on cycling tours!