it means what you think it means. Nobody is in charge. I know that's difficult for you to understand, but it shouldn't be. If you say, in a clear way, let's go here, and people follow you, that's good. If they don't, then that's also good. If they follow you and then they don't follow you, that's just as good.1st sensible thing you've said all day
C'mon though, "Xerocracy"? You gotta admit, its a whole new level of twattishness I never knew existed!
I only ever tried to lead it once - I thought we might go up to see a 'ghost bike' in Clerkenwell. We sort of got halfway there, then somebody had a different idea and we did a tour around Holborn and headed west.