Met a guy at lunchtime i used to work with

[Greedo]

and he was with this girl

We were chatting away and I had no idea who the girl was. He introduced her as Laura after a couple of mins and I genuinely thought it was someone from his work.

After a couple of mins she said, "right babe! I need to be getting back to Uni" and gave him a very full on kiss and said "see you later, I'll be over at 7" said cheerio to me and was on her merry way.

"right you" i said. WTF's the deal there as I knew he was married.

Transpires he split from his wife 18 months ago and is now divorced and met this girl at some club. Thing is he's 39 and she 18!!!!

After a bit of slagging that he'll be on a register soon etc.... he told me it was deadly serious and he is going to propose to her soon!!!!

Wished him well and toddled back to the office.

Is it just me or does anyone else find it all a bit creepy!!!! He was always a bit sleezy and a well known tit watcher by the girls in the office when I worked with him, but still 20 years is a big gap and she seemed just a young girl for her age as well

 

[mr Mag00]

creepy, the ideas sounds like a fantasy but creepy

 

[dudi]

Lucky sod

Hope I able to pull an 18 year old when I'm 39...

 

[Dave Davenport]

Saw a bloke, mid to late 30's in Sainbury's a couple of months ago with his Thai girlfriend/wife. I suppose she must have been at least 18 but she really did look about 12 and was done up in a sexy school girl type outfit (Britney Spears type thing). Now that was creepy. If she'd actually looked 20+ plus I'd have had a good ogle but this seemed well pervy.

 

[Over The Hill]

As a 49 year old male I can report that as you get older, the age limit goes up (I clearly remember the first time I saw a girl pushing a pram that I liked the look of) but the bottom end of the scale hopefully just stays a bit above the point of pervyness.

However, this is really no more than looking at what they choose to not cover and generally 18 year olds tend to on a bit of a different planet.

 

[Twenty Inch]

Well, I hope she doesn't marry him. It'll be no fun very soon.

 

[Bman]

Lucky sod

Hope I able to pull an 18 year old when I'm 39...

Indeed! Fair play to the bloke.

I may feel differently in 10 years (when I'm his age) though!

 

[Dave Davenport]

As a 49 year old male I can report that as you get older, the age limit goes up (I clearly remember the first time I saw a girl pushing a pram that I liked the look of) but the bottom end of the scale hopefully just stays a bit above the point of pervyness.

However, this is really no more than looking at what they choose to not cover and generally 18 year olds tend to on a bit of a different planet.

I'd feel a bit pervy looking at any women under mid twenties, having a 22 year old daughter's got some bearing on that, in another five years they'll have to be at least 30.

 

[vernon]

My wife was reassured and nearly drowned in tears of laughter one night as we drove through Leeds city centre when I spotted some scantily dressed lasses in their late teens/early twenties and my instant response was "What would their dads say if they could see them dressed like that?"

 

[thomas]

and he was with this girl

I read that the first time as:


Met a guy at lunchtime i used to work with....

and he was a girl.

 

[Speicher]

It's the 7" bit that got me confused, how will she know when that is? err.. oh never mind.

 

[Kirstie]

Isn't the general rule 'half your age plus 7' for the younger age limit its considered appropriate to be with?

So this guy - 39, the appropriate age would be 25.

Ach who cares?

It's a bit early for a mid life crisis - a friend of mine just divorced her husband, who, well into his 50s, shacked up with a 24 year old.

 

[summerdays]

I think it depends on the individual - some of my friends have partners 15 years difference in age and I don't see a problem with it. It probably depends a bit on how mature the younger person is, and whether they are about 20 minimum. Big age gaps with a younger person seems a bit exploitive.

 

[Globalti]

Sadly some younger women will always be impressed by blokes who flash the cash and talk big.

A few years ago on an MTB ride we came across a red Clio parked in a remote car park in the Pennines. As we stood around yakking (as you do on MTB club rides) a big Jag pulled up driven by a very senior and paunchy looking businessman with a very young secretary type girl in the passenger seat. A brief kiss goodbye and she was heading towards her Clio looking embarrassed, especially as the whole MTB crew erupted into a chorus of catcalls and wey-heys. Of course I took no part in the ribaldry, out of sympathy for the girl's feelings.....

*cough*

 

[snakehips]

Isn't the general rule 'half your age plus 7' for the younger age limit its considered appropriate to be with?

Oh dear , that works out younger than my older daughter !

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