Hi Alan, I'm not sure if I've offended you on what I wrote regarding people getting the wrong impression on how the person complaining feels about those people with children. If I did I'm very sorry. By that comment though I meant that sometimes (deliberately or otherwise) a complaint made to a person of authority will be twisted to make the person complaining sound unduly harsh, rather than the fact that they were making a point.
Personally, I like the idea that snow days given to those who can't sort childcare out are counteracted by giving extra flexi days to those who arrived and stayed (with or without children) as a thank you for struggling in. So you may miss playing in the snow with your children, but you'll get a lovely warm day in the park with them when you want it.
All we need now is an ideal world !!!