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Greedo

Guest
a hell of a lot of "there must be more to life than this" patter going on!

Is it just the miserable b*stards I meet here or is this a UK thing???

Fair play to one or two of them who have kids, partners etc.... and can't just do something different at the drop of a hat, it must be hard

But a few of them have no ties, no real commitments and I just wish they would go and do something about it instead of moaning all the time about it!
 

Arch

Married to Night Train
Location
Salford, UK
Remember when the credit crunch started, and people said "Maybe this'll be the end of all this needless materialism?"

Doesn't seem to have happened, does it, and hey presto, soon it'll all be back to where we started...

It may be a factor of your age Greedo - if all the people you meet are of similar ages, then they may all be hitting the same point in life. Like when all the people you know suddenly are getting married or having babies.
 

snorri

Legendary Member
Greedo said:
Is it just the miserable b*stards I meet here or is this a UK thing???
I'm just home from a week away in various parts of the UK, and have to say everyone I met was very pleasant.:smile:
The only fellow that upset me on the whole trip was that Brian **** Souter who clearly knows how to make money, but is totally incompetent when it comes to running a bus service.;):angry:;)
 
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Greedo

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snorri said:
I'm just home from a week away in various parts of the UK, and have to say everyone I met was very pleasant.:smile:
The only fellow that upset me on the whole trip was that Brian **** Souter who clearly knows how to make money, but is totally incompetent when it comes to running a bus service.;):angry:;)

Him and his sister are a couple of fannies if ever you met a pair. She's far brighter than him mind
 

Blue

Squire
Location
N Ireland
Greedo said:
a hell of a lot of "there must be more to life than this" patter going on!

Is it just the miserable b*stards I meet here or is this a UK thing???

Fair play to one or two of them who have kids, partners etc.... and can't just do something different at the drop of a hat, it must be hard

But a few of them have no ties, no real commitments and I just wish they would go and do something about it instead of moaning all the time about it!

That's it in a nut shell. Life is what you make of it.
 
Location
Llandudno
I've just taken a contract role rather than look for a permanent job again.

Travelling around Asia and Europe this summer has made me realise theres more to life than spreadsheets.

I've got a feeling I need to do something, I just need a little time to decide what. 37, no kids.
 
cheadle hulme said:
Yup. There are even people who don't use computers. Some of them don't even go into meetings!
What is this strange life form of which you speak?
 

Globalti

Legendary Member
I don't go to meetings. Meetings are for boring egotists who want to show off or for management by committee. I work for a company with experienced directors and heads of department; we don't hold formal meeting, we just talk to each other then got on with the job.
 

Gromit

Über Member
Location
York
We had a run in with Arch's neighbours in the big posh house across the way, when we were doing the recycling on Tuesday,

"you can't park there."

"we are collecting the recycling so we need to park the vehicular here."

"we don't care your blocking our drive way and we need to get to an important hospital appointment."

They had loads of room to get their car through, we were parked in carparking space opposite Arch's frunt door. You could fit a bus through the gap, they could have easily walked to the hospital anyway its only 5 mins up the road.

I hate rude people, why is it that people with money can be so harsh. Grr

Why is it
 

Arch

Married to Night Train
Location
Salford, UK
Gromit said:
We had a run in with Arch's neighbours in the big posh house across the way, when we were doing the recycling on Tuesday,

"you can't park there."

"we are collecting the recycling so we need to park the vehicular here."

"we don't care your blocking our drive way and we need to get to an important hospital appointment."

They had loads of room to get their car through, we were parked in carparking space opposite Arch's frunt door. You could fit a bus through the gap, they could have easily walked to the hospital anyway its only 5 mins up the road.

I hate rude people, why is it that people with money can be so harsh. Grr

Why is it

I was only thinking on Tuesday, you were quiet calling at my place, normally I hear the clink of bottles. Which big posh house, the one at the end of the mews? I wonder how they coped having to drive the long way round to get out? (my road currently being closed at one end by roadworks).

Should have got them to have a word with the chavvy family who moved in on the corner, who often like to stand in the street at night effing at each other.... So rudeness is not confined to wealth...

It's not all like that down there - the chap in the flats next door to me is always cheerful and says hello when he sees me. And you get a better class of recycling round that area, and always washed out nicely.

Back to the OP, I think although you say people don't have commitments (IE, family, kids etc), they do have them, only they are mental commitments - "Oh, I couldn't go off and do something, what about my job, how would I live etc". Big change is a scary thing, and sometimes it takes a lot of courage to throw in a 'normal' life and make a break. I did it, but it took 12 years in a crap job before I got there. And now I'm sort of doing it all over again, 10 years later. I'm hoping to be settled by the time I reach 90.
 

ChrisKH

Guru
Location
Essex
Rigid Raider said:
I don't go to meetings. Meetings are for boring egotists who want to show off or for management by committee. I work for a company with experienced directors and heads of department; we don't hold formal meeting, we just talk to each other then got on with the job.

Read that back to yourself and ask yourself, honestly, how you sound.
 
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