School kids: Rant & outcome

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nigelnorris said:
No no no you said mow them over. Which I took to be a reference to driving over them or something since we are talking about a road situation. I would put driving over someone more into the beating/violence category than the shooting category.

If your intention really was to have them shot then I retract my quote from some time above.

Ah, I see, my mistake. No, I was (not, honestly) suggesting that the cyclist should collide with the little buggers, thereby bowling them over. The thought of mowing them down with a car, still less a machine gun is a little OTT.....
 
@Nigel,
I do differentiate between punishmentdiscipline and just plain old 'beating' btw. If you can't then thats another issue.
 

nigelnorris

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2Loose said:
@Nigel,
I do differentiate between punishmentdiscipline and just plain old 'beating' btw. If you can't then thats another issue.
You're right, I struggle to see the difference between, or justification for, one form of violence against children and another. I don't regard myself not wanting to hurt children as being an issue though.
 
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Jonathan M

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nigelnorris said:
You're saying that your wife, someone responsible for recruiting and training teachers, believes that an attitude of violence towards children is a suitable qualification? It's because of people like her that the rules shifted in favour of child protection in the first place.

[And incidentally I'm sure that both of you are well aware that if she were to vocalise that point of view publicly she'd be out of work chop chop.]

This thread is way out of hand, so much talk of beatings and violence on children.

Sense of humour Nigel, sense of humour. Many people have one. Seems like you have mislaid yours?

I was almost tempted not to bother answering your very ignorant, presumptive opinion, but couldn't resist.

She isn't a fossil, the shift in child protection (some may say empowering the children to have more rights than the teachers) occured before she even became a teacher. Your comments reflect why teachers often shrug and say "we can't go back to the '80s" while waiting their time out. It is called anything for an easy life. Besides, corporal punishment in schools wasn't banned due to the actions of any particular teachers, was it? Just the societal changes that hitting kids is wrong. IIRC the NUT agreed with the removal of CP, so in no way was it endemic in schools. Half the time it was the fact that it could be used that worked, rather than the punishment being implemented.

She has never struck a child - or ever needed to. She trained in inner city schools, continued to teach kids in secondary schools in some of the most deprived areas of the country, she has taught as an advisory teacher in primary schools and is now a senior lecturer. She didn't get there by ignoring situations, she got there by managing herself, her departments, and the pupils well. Sense of humour and patience are essential charectaristics of a good teacher, even better is the ability to inspire and motivate children to behave in a positive and socially appropriate manner. She trains teachers to think about the purpose of education and to provide a quality experience in their care. Kids are not league tables, they are individuals. Joe24 at least demonstrates personality, and while his age means he expresses himself in a provocative manner, this does not mean that he will do exactly what he says. Anyone with understanding of child pyschology will understand that. Perhaps some CPD is required, my wifes provides that too.

In fact, I'd assume that your school is well aware of pupil behaviour problems in the local community and take the well worn "what can we do, our hands are tied" defence. At least until OFSTED turn up and the unruly yr 10s suddenly disappear on "work placement", and SMT prescence is massively increased at the school gates. ;)

The result was that SMT at the school in question took action appropriate and engaged in a conversation on a professional to professional level.
 

nigelnorris

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tldr;

Couldn't really care less about your wife, or your assumptions about me or my school. All I ever said was that I don't really think that violence against children is a good thing, much less when you are trying to turn me into the one that carries it out on your behalf.

You think that's something to laugh about, what can I say.
 
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Jonathan M

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nigelnorris said:
tldr;

Couldn't really care less about your wife, or your assumptions about me or my school. All I ever said was that I don't really think that violence against children is a good thing, much less when you are trying to turn me into the one that carries it out on your behalf.

You think that's something to laugh about, what can I say.

Apologies to those who feel this thread needs to die a death, I have asked the mods to close it.

However in response to Mr Norris's assumption that I alledged I wanted teachers to perform violence against pupils, no, if he re-reads my posts carefully then other than joining the banter that is so common on this forum, I actually outlined that the school was contacted as their representatives (the pupils in uniform) needed to be informed that their tasks were not fitting in with a school's role in the community, and that the SMT took the issue seriously, taking actions that were realistic & proportionate to the situation.

Any assumptions that I posted Nigel were purely in response to your assumptions that my wife & I condone violence to children. No, we don't, but in all seriousness Nigel you need to read posts in context. If I had commenced with a comment along the lines of how I'd hit the little runt, or went to hit him but couldn't catch him, then fine, you would have grounds to have an issue with me, however I did not. You'll see that I informed a PCSO nearby, I didn't even bother to stop and place myself in a situation that meant I communicated with the child in anyway.

In conclusion, I have had no further problems with the pupils from that school this week, it remains to be seen if this situation continues, but it is a positive change so far, as was the schools response to this event, as the school's SMT have never returned calls that have been made about similar issues in the past. It is just a shame it required the threat of communication to OFSTED to elicit this response.


That is my final say on this subject, as mentioned I have asked Admin to close the thread as the humour contained has fallen foul of the "PC" element on the forum.
 

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Unfortunately I haven't had the time to read through the whole thread, but it does seem like tempers are fraying, so I'm going to close it.
 
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