Self preservation, are car drivers putting you off?

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Badger_Boom

Veteran
Location
York
The week before last it was a bit chilly so I decided to walk along the disused rail track into town. I came out of the Post Office and walked along the pavement...... next thing a car came along with its tyres scraping the kerb. I thought 'crikey, that's a bit odd'. I then found out I'd nearly been run over! A guy on a scaffold on the building opposite shouted to his colleague "ere, did you see that car was on the pavement and just turned and missed the guy walking along!" :eek:

A couple of weeks ago I found myself in a slanging match with the passenger of a car that drove onto the pavement to park right next to me and the dog. When I politely but grumpily asked the driver if they though it was safe or acceptable, their buddy gave me both barrels including an offer to 'put [me] on on [my] a*se'. The irony was that they were dropping their children off outside a primary school.
 

wiggydiggy

Legendary Member
A couple of weeks ago I found myself in a slanging match with the passenger of a car that drove onto the pavement to park right next to me and the dog. When I politely but grumpily asked the driver if they though it was safe or acceptable, their buddy gave me both barrels including an offer to 'put [me] on on [my] a*se'. The irony was that they were dropping their children off outside a primary school.

I read that somewhere else when you posted it. You could report it to the school and the council, around here school parking issues have been making the local news headlines as people are taking the mickey.
 

Badger_Boom

Veteran
Location
York
I read that somewhere else when you posted it. You could report it to the school and the council, around here school parking issues have been making the local news headlines as people are taking the mickey.

I reported it to the school and got a reply saying that they would remind parents not to park on the pavement or abuse members of the public. It worries me that anyone should need reminding of the latter.
 

Electric_Andy

Heavy Metal Fan
Location
Plymouth
tug the first agricultural vehicle I saw .....The impression I got was that they didn't think the law applied to them
Yes. I drove tractors for 8 years and went to many farms. The fact that they are exempt from VED tends to make many think that all aspects of maintenance and safety can go out the window. There was one farming family who were famous for it - they'd drive round in a 30 year old tractor with the battery hanging on with a bit of bailing twine. My uncle also used to shove mud up under his landy to cover up the rotting chassis, knowing that the MOT man wouldn't scoop it out to inspect because he didn't want to make his garage floor dirty
 

Electric_Andy

Heavy Metal Fan
Location
Plymouth
Hi guys,
I have a road bike and two mtb bikes. The reason for riding mtb bikes, is to get myself off the road as much as possible, especially during the winter months.
I also have a smart trainer that I absolutely love as it’s as near to real life cycling as you can get. I’m on the fence with going back on the road this year ( except charity rides) with the cars and abuse we often have to suffer, just for enjoying a morning out. Although they say cycling is declining, I’m thinking, maybe it’s not, maybe more people are moving onto smart trainers or mtb for their own safety.

Yes, this is why I gave up cycle commuting. I was nearly wiped out about once a month; had it not been for my experience I may have joined the dozens of others that have sadly died in the last decade. Of course not all near misses might have been serious, but it was also for my mental health - I could not let some of the dangerous driving go unsaid and I was often arriving at work or at home angry and stressed. It was only a matter of time until I battered someone, or tried to and got battered myself
 

Fastpedaller

Über Member
Location
Norfolk
A couple of weeks ago I found myself in a slanging match with the passenger of a car that drove onto the pavement to park right next to me and the dog. When I politely but grumpily asked the driver if they though it was safe or acceptable, their buddy gave me both barrels including an offer to 'put [me] on on [my] a*se'. The irony was that they were dropping their children off outside a primary school.

What a wonderful example they give to their children. :sad:
 

fossyant

Ride It Like You Stole It!
Location
South Manchester
It’s nothing like outdoor riding.

It's not cycling either and has few of the benefits, like scenery, getting to places, and fresh air and vitamin D.
 

ianrauk

Tattooed Beat Messiah
Location
Rides Ti2
What a wonderful example they give to their children. :sad:

When it comes to angry car drivers, they could have had the Queen or Mother Theresa in the passenger seat and it still wouldn't have stopped some of them mouthing off.
Once I had a mouth full of of foul verbal and spit aimed at me from a woman with a child in the car.
 

roubaixtuesday

self serving virtue signaller
When it comes to angry car drivers, they could have had the Queen or Mother Theresa in the passenger seat and it still wouldn't have stopped some of them mouthing off.
Once I had a mouth full of of foul verbal and spit aimed at me from a woman with a child in the car.

One of the things that distinguishes the British road user from others I've encountered is the level of suppressed rage barely below the surface.

Other countries (Italy comes to mind) can be far more chaotic, and probably every bit as dangerous in reality, but it's generally good natured chaos, without the aggression and frankly violence which seems to have become an inherent part of the British road experience.

I've no idea why.
 

Dadam

Über Member
Location
SW Leeds
One of the things that distinguishes the British road user from others I've encountered is the level of suppressed rage barely below the surface.

Other countries (Italy comes to mind) can be far more chaotic, and probably every bit as dangerous in reality, but it's generally good natured chaos, without the aggression and frankly violence which seems to have become an inherent part of the British road experience.

I've no idea why.

We were on holiday in Sorrento last year and although the driving was mad chaos, especially the scooters zipping and weaving in and out on all sides, and frequent horn blowing, people seemed to just accept it and go with the flow. I didn't see any road rage.
 

roubaixtuesday

self serving virtue signaller
We were on holiday in Sorrento last year and although the driving was mad chaos, especially the scooters zipping and weaving in and out on all sides, and frequent horn blowing, people seemed to just accept it and go with the flow. I didn't see any road rage.

Had the same experience cycling through Genoa last year. Genoa traffic is notorious even in Italy!
 

Fastpedaller

Über Member
Location
Norfolk
We were on holiday in Sorrento last year and although the driving was mad chaos, especially the scooters zipping and weaving in and out on all sides, and frequent horn blowing, people seemed to just accept it and go with the flow. I didn't see any road rage.

We were in Sorrento 26 years ago, and I couldn't handle the zebra crossings. The 'accepted' way (it seems) was for the pedestrian to just walk across and the cars would avoid you! My Wife would do this, but I was more wary. It seemed the drivers had more awareness of their surroundings than Uk drivers. On returning to UK I crossed on a zebra and was (as usual) waiting for a vehicle to stop, or allowing more than sufficient distance for them to do so. Despite allowing a good 150m for a van to stop, when I got halfway across he was still going far in excess of the 30 limit and if I hadn't leapt quickly I'd have been squashed - he was obviously totally unaware of my presence, and maybe even the crossing :eek: Give me Sorrento compared to a UK town any time. We noticed how the UK seemed very quiet without the Buzz - Buzz of the little mopeds, they were somewhat reassuring in a strange way.
 

Dogtrousers

Lefty tighty. Get it righty.
Reminds me of a time my wife and I, accompanied by a very sprightly and very tiny 90 year old lady were trying in vain to cross the road in Naples. Eventually my wife just marched out into the road, stopped the traffic, made that "I've got my eye on you" gesture at the leading driver while indicating me, with the lady on my arm as as we crossed. The driver looked a bit stunned, and certainly not about to start raging.
 
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